Everyone knows that men and women speak in different languages, not better or worse, just unique in every since of the words. With that being said, I do believe entering in2 the God ordained institution our motives and goals should be on the same level, but usually it is quite the opposite. Please come with me and take this journey from the male perspective and see if you feelz your boy!
When a man get married its because of its one of two general reasons. 1). He done got his woman knocked up and he has that old skool thinking that he has got to marry her and get a job at the local gas station to make his family just that .....a family! 2). He marries because he figures he has found the perfect woman for him, his soul mate, his forever twinn. The man goes into this thang thinking I love her to death, I hope she never changes. (Women want the man to change in2 perfection with her help) I want her to stay this way 4 ever!! I love her long hair, her slim figure and her mild temper she always has.
Fast 4WARD 6 years ( if you make it that long) and you find that she may have gained a pound or 75, her hair style has changed more times than a woman prerogative and she has a tendency to yell, nagg and complain about things that you feel are trivial. Dare I say it, but the sex is all but non-existence and she starts to be more concerned about how she looks when she goes out in public then when she is alone with you. You find yourself looking at other women you wish was yours. Is that a good thing to do? Probably not, but the truth can not be a lie can it?
Men basically need a few things to be happy. Some good cooked home food, to be left alone during the big games, some good loving on the regular (booty) and for women to tell us what they want us to do- we can following directions and feel pretty darn good about that. We will beat our chests with joy because we made the woman happy!
Another thing is that men are simple. We wear the same hair style for years and jeans if no one would complain. We are pretty much predictable and like what we like. Stop asking us if you look fat in them jeans. YES you are fat and you know it. If you want a lie ask a dude who is trying to get in your pants and if you want the truth as the dude who resides with you-lol! My point is this. Marriage is work and if you are ready for that challenge go for it. Keep in mind that nothing changes unless something changes. This is for my guys out there to. Fellas, we gotta stop showing our women they love they need to shine. When we first met them, it was flowers, cards and candy. We can not start out the race strong and then get weak due to hard times. Man up and lead by example or step aside and let a real man handle your woman ( they ain't gonna like that). Women love to be told that they are loved, but they especially loved to be SHOWN that they are loved as well. You do the math on that one. True woman is the man's compliment, but you gotta treat her like she is all that and then some. After all the dude she cheats on you with is only doing the things that you won't, don't or can't-lol. Marriage is what you make it. I know I am far from perfect but I am willing to get down and go through the fire with my woman if she keeps it real with me and we are a team. Now do you feelz me......
I am thinking about Marriage Ward......
2 comments:
Yep, there is always a reason to why someone cheats in a relationship or marriage.If your partner is not giving you what you want and need their is always someone out their who will.Good blog, I enjoyed reading it.
Women are special people they need to be cuddled, appreciated, valued and loved. If you can't get it from your man they are plenty of men out there willing to do the job. And its not about sex..its about being treated with respect..
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