2 stay or to get the heck up outta Dodge

There are many reasons that people stay in relationships, and of those that leave- the reasons are just as plentiful. I don't think anyone can be honest and say they love their mate all the time or in the same way each day. Well this is what my thoughts are today...
Can you see the possibilities a relationship offers? Explore the possibilities. Be yourself. Find a person who matches with you. Take the risk, but be honest. If it works, keep going. If it doesn't work, then do yourself a favor and walk away. Let her go and don't be selfish. Now we know that the Bible speaks of divorcing only if adultery is committed, but how many of yall heathens are Christians-lol!
But what if you want to stay anyway. I suggest this....Let go of your attachments of he past with your partner. Let it go because it was nothing but personal importance. it was nothing but a misunderstanding. It was nothing but someone being hurt and trying to get even. It's not worth whatever happened in the past to spoil the possibility that you can both reach in this renewed relationship.
Don't get it twisted on what good and bad moments are. If your bad moment means he is straight whooping your *&^, then you might wonna dip! But if a bad time means he lost his job, then you can survive that- he can get another or better job one day. Finally, don't take it personally when your mate doesn't want to talk. If U came home and your dog was waiting 4 you wagging his tail and you ignore him, he will find something else to do until you want to play. People will do well to let their mates have this time to be human too.
Some relationships are difficult at best but you just have to decide "2 stay or get the heck up outta Dodge".
I am warD.....