These first 4 are the hidden reasons she is tripping......
1. She don't like it when U (her dude) minimizes the importance of her feelings or requests. she feels dismissed and unimportant.
2. She don't like it when U forget to do the thangs she asked you and then she has to sound like a nag begging for your support.
3. She don't like it when U blame her for being upset! She feels like she has to be perfect to be loved. She ain't perfect and she wants your bone head to realize this and love her anyway- sucka!
4. She don't like it when you have a condescending attitude when she asks questions about decisions yall need to make. It makes her feel like she is a burden or that she is wasting your time.
These last 4 are what she should not try to argue......
1.She needs to feel validated and cherished. Instead she feels judged and ignored.
2.She needs to feel respected and remembered. Instead she feels neglected and at
the bottom of his list of priorities.
3.She needs him to understand why she is upset and reassure her that she is still loved and that she doesn't have to be perfect. Go ahead girl be your crazy self!!!
4.She needs to feel that he cares about her feelings, and respects her need to gather information. Instead she feels disrespected and UN appreciated.
Enough said on that. Check back later and lets review how the brotha feels and why he arugues with your big bone head??
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