The Unlucky Woman

I was talking to an associate the other day and she said something that brought on this blog. She stated that she knows she is a good woman with a lot 2 offer a man, but she just can't seem to find a good man in Indianapolis. She has tried clubs, work mates, hook up from friends and family and sifted most of the churches in the area to no avail? She said maybe should should try playing for the same team (Gay) and see if her fortune increases.

I thought to myself, maybe the dudes are not the only problem. I honestly think its ol girl, I mean she looks o.k. physically, but then again what I think is hot- she is not!! (hey that rhymes) Seriously, how can so many guys not be a match for one woman? Let me see if I can break this thing down from a male perspective.

I am sure everyone woman has read Proverbs chapter 31 in the Bible- talking about what a good woman is all about, so I won't go there, but I will go here. Check it- How do you know if your partner is right 4 you? Let's imagine that you are a man and a woman is going to choose you. If there are a hundred women looking for a man (or vice versa), and each will look at you as a possibility, 4 how many of these women/men will you be the right woman/man? The answer is you don't know. That is Y you need to explore and take the risk. But I can tell you that the right woman 4 you is the woman or man that you love just the way he or she is, the person you don't have the need to change at all!! That is the one 4 you. You have found a good thing, if you found the right person for you and at the same time you are the right person 4 them. I mean its a wonderful thing when U can trust that someone is who they say they are. No pretending or the 6 month front games people often play. See, I think if someone wants to change you, you are they are not the one 4 you. Don't you agree?

Couples should be able to go to Denny's and have French toast and good conversation, just because its raining outside, right? I could get deeper on this topic- but I can't condense this broad subject down right now.Besides women are crazy.....or do men make them that way?

I am Ward....