O.k party people, this one is about relationships! I will start by stating the obvious- Men and Women tend to view things differently at times. Not better or worse than the other, just different. With that being said I think I have just saved myself a million opinionated emails about relationships!
What i wanted to discuss is, if what was said is what you "really" heard. I have learned that communication involves more than just words. It is about your tone, body language and of course the words. Think about it, most fights start out with someone looking at someone else sydeways and then the rest ensues. Its no different with dealing with the opposite sex!
Sometimes women don't know exactly what they want or how to always get there but they will know when they know. A man will find that reasoning dang near mind boggling. Inside a man's wallet you may find some paper money, credit cards and a drivers license. Inside a women's purse you may find, a mirror, tissue, dental floss, tampons, ink pens, money, breath mints, scrap paper, lip stick etc... So at times a woman may not be totally aware of what is in the purse until she dumps it all out and sifts through it and finds what she wanted, even if she didn't know what that was from the jump. Back to the man, he gets in and out (that has double meaning).
To keep this blog simple, I sum it up like this. Just because someone says one thing and may mean another, let us not call them a liar, lets just give them the benefit and respect as having a unique perspective that we can appreciate. Your side, their syde and the truth... What did you expect me to say in this, lol...
i aM wARd..
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