The family that borrows $$$$ from each other.....will always cause issues......

As I look back over the years that I have been on my own, I have always had friends, family and users requesting me to loan them some of my coins because they caught the Chinese disease known as" FUNZ are Lowwww". I mean I don't see nothing wrong ( in my R.Kelly voice) with helping out a friend in need but eye find as I get older, that if you help someone when they are in trouble, they will remember you the next time they get in trouble.
It seems like people get caught up in repeating the same old cycles of repetition. For example, stealing from Mookie to pay Marquitta and living pay check to pay check isn't the best look especially when you want my change. Come to think about it, when you ask a bank for money, they come back with a myriad of questions that require answers for consideration.
O.k. back to the family.  They come up with all kind of excuses why they can't pay you back or why you should trust them when no one else would. Well, Wardy came up with a great ideal on money loaning moving 4ward. I simply say NO! I think someone being in a compromising  situation is an excellent opportunity for them to use strengths they didn't know they had to get out of it! I know, you can thank me later.....
Some may consider it mean, but I don't think I should have to feel sorry for child molesters, drug addicts or people who are broke due to their own errors. If you need a loan, get a cash advance, if you need a car, go to Enterprise and if you need clothes, go to Goodwill suckers.... I wouldn't say- I work hard for my $$$ -but I would say it is my money to do what I want. I was once told by a relative that I think I am all that because eye have nice house. Really???? I guess that can be a bad thing........NOT!
Advice: Know better and do better! Work hard and do what u can until you can do what you love. Make payment arrrangements and keep your eyez simple.
NO MASSSSS
I am Ward....