Blinded by love or just tired of trying to get it right?????

Fellas, we all got that homeboy who started dating a chick that really made you scratch your head???? She was flaky, possessive, and high-drama. Everyone could see that the gal was toxic and really bringing your boy down…everyone, that is, except your boy.
You tell yourself, “That would never happen to me.”
But then it does----Surprise.
What gives? How do people end up in crazy relationships despite warning signs that their mate was bad news to begin with?
Answer: Women are Crazy and Men don't make them that way!!!!

 Seems that most men start out dating the chick hoping she never changes and the woman usually thinks that she can change the half a man in to the perfect specimen once she puts her finishing touches on him-lol!
Don’t fool yourself.  You can’t force your partner to change; the change has to come from within. Also, problems that you notice at the beginning of a relationship tend to amplify themselves as the relationship deepens. If he/she is possessive of you and you got friends, its your mates "goal" to get rid of the pseudo competition. But what I don't understand is why does the trust leave a relationship? Could the couple no longer be "NEW" to each other, are out side influences pulling at the seems of your relationship? Could it be family that is a the root of the situation? Perhaps you are ashamed of the decision you made in a mate? All good questions but I believe the answer to be: Improving your communication.

Learn to talk to your mate about how you feel and what you want and need. It may not be easy, but consider the alternative (Being by your self, because somebody is about to ba ba ba ba BOUNCE!) Yes, love is a powerful thang that most people don't get right. Look at all the couples you know and see how many are really happy? I heard one dude say, he stay with his chick because he don't want to pay that $750 alone! Wardy things that when you fall for someone looks, you may over look their realities. 1. How to they handle relationship conflicts 2. What is the money management skills looking like? 3. Do they love your kids (if any)? 4. Do you feel like a prisoner or free to be yourself.
Heck, most people don't ever have the HIV talk so why would the above 4 be asked?  Hummm, are we blinded by love or just tired of trying to get it right???????

I am Ward......