So armed with this knowledge, I inquired of a female (that I found to be very logical and wise) as to why women are always changing it up? The response was basically this:
""Men are visual creatures and they like what they like. So sometimes men are attracted to women with long hair and some days they want the chick with the blonde wig on with stripper shoes. A woman who wants to keep her dudes eye, may want to swithch it up to please him according to my source. She even stated that some men will tell his chick that he tired of her look and she should make a change. Even though this truth has the tendency to hurt the woman's, at the end of the day she is glad 4 this honesty, because this will keep them together!""
I had to marinate on this briefly because, honestly I only looked at it from the male perspective. I just knew men are visual but only liked one look. For example, I enjoy a woman who keeps her hair nice and clothes fashionable and stay in shape. I prefer her not to drink like a fish or use foul language. But then again, it is cool to see a girl like Black China some times too! So I agree, men can be fickle at times too. So now, I am thinking what do women want? Is it just to be loved by the man who chooses her? Does she think the dude is almost what she wants and just needs a little enhancement from her????? Heck, most women get involved in realtionships thinking they want to change (help better) the dude and men tend to get married to his woman and hopes (falsely thinks) she will never change. Both are usually surprised lol!
My thoughts are these: Its important to please your mate, but its equally important to know thy self first.
I am Ward......
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