Do Men Prefer Independent Women or the Damsel in Distress?

Love and happiness seems to be just an old popular song doesn’t it? If I had a dollar 4 every time I heard a person speak about how they can’t find a mate. It’s really ironic because this world has over 7 billion people on her at any given moment, so why can’t two (or 3 people) find each other and happiness??? Could it be that love don’t live here anymore or could it be that the type of women who actually get married have a certain something special about them??? First, the mind has got to be correct! Men need to be respected and needed by his woman. He is more than likely her protector and provider and willing to die for her if need be. But he has to know she is down for him. Being down -means being easy to love in every sense of the words. What man really wants to deal with a know it all, in your face argumentative woman all the time. I was told by one woman that since she owns the house and the dude lives with her that she basically calls the shots. I feel her dude will truly never commit to her because he has to fight to be head of the house. I personally feel that its unnatural for women to lead the man considering she is his helper/compliment, but each couple has gotta do what works for them! Here is a brief player’s guide to getting married to the man you want or love! 1. Birds of a feather flock together. If your so called “Friends” hate your dude (whether his is right or wrong/good or bad) and you are still cool with them, then it’s no way you can please both parties. Besides, you are the person who tells your friends about your dude. He will leave you and the friends will never let you forget his faults while looking past their own! 2. Men love a woman who has a mild spirit. She wants to please her dude with her beauty, smarts and wise decision making skills. A real woman makes her value known to her potential mate by being assertive (getting things done) and without having a mouth piece. Mild women win their men without words. 3. Allow the man to find you. How long are women gonna keep trying to get a man and make him into what you want him to be. Its hard enough to try and change ur self. If he ain’t all that, why not walk away now and prepare for your soul mate. 4. Know yourself and work on issues while you single. Get your cooking skills and house hold skills on point. Learn how to save money and do things for yourself around the house so U can be a real helper when the time comes. 5. Study about relationships of successful couples and copy what they do that you really appreciate. Love is not 4 everyone. Some of yall need to be single and have several cats’ foe life. Because until you realize that you have a limited amount of time on this Earth, I feel you are single for a reason. I am Ward……