O.k. yall know I am in skool to be a professional counselor and its going pretty good if I must say so my dang self. With that being said, I started thinking about mother-n-laws around the world and the bad rep that so many have not unlike that of a used car salesman-lol. Matter of fact check out some of my jokes on the topic before I break this down from a counselors perspective.....
1) Adam and Eve were the happiest couple of ever because neither of them had a mother-n-law!
2) What's the difference between in-laws and outlaws????????? Answer: Out laws were wanted-lol!
3) What's the difference between a pit-bull and a mother-n-law???? Answer: Eventually the pit-bull lets go!!!!
O.k. enough of that....When it comes to the new daughter its almost like the mom sees her as the other woman her son is cheating with. No matter what the new wife does, many times it won't be like how Mom put it down! Many momz ruin their sons 4 the wives in their lives. The momz cook, clean wash and iron for the son. They believe they're showing their sons love with these acts, but they are actually causing problems for their sons in later life when they develop relationship with women. The sons, in the end, find it hard to do things theirs mothers did for them. But imagine how this must affect the new wife who feels she has to retrain her new dude rather than complain he is a mama's boy.
I realzied that some momz are in a tough spot. Peep this, typical mom and daughters discuss everything about anything and have a bond. But when the new wifeee comes along, she isn't your real daughter and has no reason to be all confidential with the mom-n-law. This can cause jealousy because you getting her son and she is losing a son not necessarily gaining a daughter! It seems that when dating the future wife will work hard to win over momz until she get that hardware on her fanger, then its more permanent, so the two become juvenile and almost fight over the man. Isn't that crazy-lol!
Like Wardy always says,4 every solution, what is needed is the willingness to solve it. The son and daughter-in-law must tackle the situation open and maturely. Just the other day, my sister-n-law (I am not gonna say Meka's name)said that the mother-n-law is her HUSBAND'S MOTHER!!!! Its funny but I knew what she meant. True, not all momz-n-law are loving but you gotta know when 2 hold em and when to fold em. I think there is a mean mother-n-law class you can take on line somewhere-lol!
Anywho, I just felt like touching on this topic briefly because it one of my class Discussion Questions so I can't say how I really break this topic down, but hey it is what it is....
I am Ward.......
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