I sometimes toss and turn with the myriad of stories that I encounter in my daily life. For example, a man who moved a lot of weight (Sold Drugs) as his profession- ends up getting caught and goes to jail. Turns out he is a righteous dude- friendly, articulate and very giving in nature. Should I hate the fact that he chose that decision for his life or should I just accept that he was a savvy business man who chose a profession that is not legal?
I understand many of the bad choices that good people have made over the course of their lives. I do not condone wrong or even judge it, The Bible makes it pretty clear about consequences of our actions. I just have a sour taste in my mouth when I ponder that facts that the role models our youth look up to do not always have the best intentions.
What about the man who beats his wife (or vice versa) in private, yet he is a prominent figure in the community, work or his place of worship? What is the rationale behind that? Is it stress, jealousy, or ignorance? I don't know, but this type of action has been going on for years.
Then there is the trust thing. What if your dude asks (U)his woman, for the email passwords or voice mail codes. Is he jealous, controlling or just plain crazy? I think that it could be just looking for reassurance to ease some crazy ideals that others may have planted in his mind or some stupid talk show. Why not just be open with your mate? I guess many people would have different views, but I know I would have no problem with be open and honest........Do You?
Ward
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