O.k. I was watching the Tyra Banks show today (Yes I said Tyra BankS) and these women was talking about how they don't need no stinking man and can have a baby by themselves. Well it was going smooth until they brought the Bible up. One lady said that in Genesis that the woman will crave her dude and he will dominate her. The other lady said that was curse! Lady 3 says women were made to keep man from being bored and not her! It was a funny show. I personally feel that two people really just want a person who gotz their back and show them good love.
With that being said, a real live woman I know, has had this torch for her dude for years. The ironic thing is- that she was his woman- but he wasn't her man??? No matter how mean this dude is to the girl in question she still is there hoping for the best.
Now is that love- if love is not reciprocated? Hummm, I would say there are some issues that require immediate attention. I find myself struggling with how a man can call a woman the "B" word and she still sits there and talk to him like that is her name. How can a man treat you like a second class citizen and you stay with him. Perhaps the women on the Tyra show did have a point!!!! In Steve Harvey's book (Act like a lady...Think like a Man) he said something that I really agree with. He said on page 78, A woman who commands respect is a keeper; a woman who lets men get away with disrespecting her is a throwback. And my friend wonders why she is single????
Now is that love- if love is not reciprocated? Hummm, I would say there are some issues that require immediate attention. I find myself struggling with how a man can call a woman the "B" word and she still sits there and talk to him like that is her name. How can a man treat you like a second class citizen and you stay with him. Perhaps the women on the Tyra show did have a point!!!! In Steve Harvey's book (Act like a lady...Think like a Man) he said something that I really agree with. He said on page 78, A woman who commands respect is a keeper; a woman who lets men get away with disrespecting her is a throwback. And my friend wonders why she is single????
My home girl is said to be over this dude now, but she keeps talking about the good TIME they had back in 1974. I mean come on lady, get a seeing eye dawg. You ain't over him and he was never that into you. After 16 years of dating, if he ain't wife you up---I hate to say it,but you wasn't the one, two or twelve. He is getting married soon to his dream girl, I just hope you are alright. You can't get back the time you invested in him. Learn from this and move on or keep your toes crossed and hopefully he may change and come back to YOU........not
I am Ward...
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