Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Women


I really enjoy talking to my female friends but today two particualar ladies gave me some insight that I just found interesting. I won't say I don't believe what they said, its just that I was like hummmmm. Peep this, one young lady said she was at the bar having some dranks with her hommies when this dude rolled up on her and started talking to her butt! Saying things like "Hi, how are you doing" and when ole gurl turned around he was like your face is nice looking too???
Now was this a pick up line or was he just trying something new because he found what he liked. The young lady in question said she was offended by this behaviour. So I began to think how hard it is for us men to try to holla at women in the first place due to the pretty much assured rejection factor. I asked her what line would she use to meet a guy she liked and she wasn't sure what to say. I asked the other gal with her and she stated that it depends on the situation. I call that code for "I dont know"- lol!
When it comes down to it, the bar or club or jazz lounge is just a meat market waiting for people to hook up. Should the men be more respectful...perhaps or should the women be more open to men's weak attemps at getting your attention. I guess this is the age of question. What about that fat thing (see pic above), women want us to love them no matter what, short hair out of the blue, sudden weight gain of 100+ lbs or just being mean. Is that fair??? I think it just makes up for the kraziness you all put us through out the chase of the relationship.

I know there are plenty of womderful women out there as well as good men. But how is it that all the negative one find the good one's first. I even heard about cyber stalkers in chat forums. Fellas, if a woman does not respond to your messages, stop with the IM's and constantly reviewing her profile....it ain't her...it you bro!

I will say this for persistence....I have seen many an odd couple because one person did not give up until they got thier prize. Look at Seal, flavor flav and whoopie goldberg. You do the math......
I am ward.....

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

That looks like you underneath all that flesh..

Men have feelings too!

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