Submissive to whom?

Yesterday, I had family at the house, so I scooted down to Uno's grill on the south syde and got 2 large deep dish pizza and created my famous Olive Garden salad. I think it went over well because all the food was pretty much gone and everyone was laughing and talking.
Well as the day went on, I began reflect about that Vivica Fox's movie called 3 can play that game. Something that stood out was step number 5 when she said the woman had to submit to the man and it is one of the hardest things for a woman to do??? I was blown away by that comment because I never considered it. I mean I am a guy so why should it matter-right? Wrong!!!
The scriptures say the man is head of the woman, but in a loving way of course. I know the women I have dated in the past were pretty head strong and I had to leave them in the past because of that! When I think of a good woman, I immediately think of those sisters in the Far East. They bow when they walk in the room, never yell at they man and respect is as important to them as air and water is to you and me!
Surprisingly they have a very very low divorce rate, hummm I can't figure out why??
Really submission is a sign of respect especially if you love the person you are submissive to and they make wise decisions. I honestly believe when a woman who is shown she is loved and told daily- that she would enjoy giving her all. But it takes a strong man to have patience for an American sister. You know the neck rolling, hand on the hip, index finger pointing, yelling at the top of her voice, scene causing, know it all who calls you ignorant! I am sorry I went there didn't I? I am o.k now so let me finish this blog. See ladies- men have to be submissive too! But to Jesus and he is perfect, of course, so that makes it easier for us. Nonetheless, we don't do nothing that is not asked of yall. My co-workers (women) were telling me today that men ask to much of them with the sexy clothing, hair being done, cooking, cleaning and so fourth, but what they get in return is not comparable or hardly worth it.I guess that is why they all are single-lol. I must ponder that thought for a minute, because I only know what Ward does- believe me I dooz a lot for mine-lol!
Referring back to men, we don't have to run our relationshipz- we just have to earn ur respect by making them good decisions, treating yall very well and ready to forgive errors frequently and then the rest is up to yall. Now the rest of you suckers out there, You know how we do. So will she be submissive or not? The better question is will you be a spiritual head for your woman to have deep respect for....
I be that Ward