Jealousy+ Distance = Singleness with no regrets!!!!

What are the signs that your partner has had it with your jealousy?

It's as if something takes over and he/she reaches the point of NEVER coming back.
When jealousy gets triggered, it can quickly build and seem to take control of you. It can even feel like you weren't the one saying or doing what you did.

The spying, relentless questioning, accusations and more can all come from jealousy. And it can all be unwarranted. Maybe your spouse has proven to you over and over again that you actually CAN trust him or her. Maybe you've tried to convince yourself of this too...but you always seem to forget and do what you do to move fast forward toward your soon to be divorced status.
Jealousy comes in and you and your partner have the same tension, arguments and distance that you had in the past.
The question that might be looming in your mind is.... “Will my jealousy drive my spouse away?”
If you're worried that your jealousy habit is pushing your partner toward divorce, look for these signs...
* Communication breakdown: You two may always seem to be arguing or a cold silence dominates. Communicating about even "little" things feels impossible. You refuse to communicate the way your mate prefers or you constantly interrupt their words when they want to talk.
* Apathy/giving up: Giving up isn't always a bad thing, but no longer caring about improving your relationship or dealing with challenges like jealousy is a serious warning sign. No matter how much someone loves you, everyone has their breaking point of putting up with your desire to ruin your relationship!
* Turning to others: This doesn't have 2 be an affair but a definite reliance on others for comfort, companionship and enjoyment is something to pay attention to. Sometimes people seek out those who agree with them or at least an ear to hear our version of what happened. The saddest thing about this is, the friend you half tell a story too actually believes you and forms a negative view of the innocent mate.
* Spending less and less time together: Everyone seems to be overly busy these days, but when either or both of you intentionally find ways to NOT be together, this is another warning sign. Nevertheless, consider asking your self  "why" does my mate no want to spend time with me more and more each day?
We can't know what your spouse is planning to do. Every person and every situation is different. However, if you recognize any of these signs in your relationship, it's time to make some changes. Your marriage could be in danger and now is the moment to take steps to turn things around. Personally, I feel that people are adults and have to be responsible for their actions and must be willing to accept the consequences of said actions.
Get to the root of your jealous habit.
It's absolutely essential for you to be responsible for your jealousy habit. One way to do this is to better understand why it's there. This is not about finding some experience or someone else to blame. This is your opportunity to discover what is at the root of your jealousy.
It may be your insecurity. It could be the emotional wounds you still carry around because your past partner lied and cheated. It could be a combination of many things, but whatever it is, treating your mate in a way that is less than favorable will soon find these couples happily single!
Take the time to go within yourself and figure out what you are thinking and what beliefs you have that fuel and feed your jealousy habit.  I would never encourage anyone to get a divorce, but according to the scriputres, if a couple parts/divorces, they can't remarry, but they can be free of each other. Sometimes being alone is not a bad thing, especially if you have been thru more than you feel you can handle.
I am Ward.......
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