We have all heard that saying to "think outside the box" right? Seldom are we given specific direction on achieving the monumental goal. It's like most of us are programmed to automatically think negatively about what is before our eyes. Today, I engaged in a conversation about what "I" considered to be an attractive woman. My response is pretty much this: Someone who is attractive in appearance ( hair looking nice, clothes are sexy professional, nice body with head on right). I think that sums it up for most heterosexual males. Men don't care if you had butt injections or breast augmentations as much as we like the finished product.
But when it comes to women's views on what is considered an attractive woman, it gets tricky!!! If you are the woman answering the topic question, then you can bet the whole house, that your bff (aka Fat Fiona) is gonna be considered beautiful. Sorta like, if we cool, then you are beautiful and if we not cool, then you are a double tree frog troll midget. The bff's are described something like this...."She is attractive in her own way"! What the freak dat suppose to mean: in her own way???? The ironic thing about that comment is, I can't recall a woman who thinks her man's ex-woman is/was attractive. Does that mean that your dude's ex women don't have a special way of looking beautiful? The new chicks always be popping off about how the old chicks ain't got nothing on them! Really people, are yall serious. Women are notorious for tearing down another woman- from her head to her toes, just because besides I think they are jealous or being a hater. Again, nobody is gonna admit they are a hater, but the symptoms are very evident.
Case n point, I showed some females a pic of the woman pictured in the post, and I immediately got "Her booty fake, her waist can't be that small and she got on make up making her look better because she is unattractive to my favorite.....She was using Photoshop. . I think i finally under stand what a hater izzzz!
Don't get me twisted, I am all for everyone having an opinion, but what I don't get is, why would someone say negative comments about a person who took the time out to get their stuff together while you still in the (((talking about getting ready to get your stuff together)))? Would it not behoove the hater to, first walk a mile in the fake booty, implanted breasts, extra make up wearing attention whores stilettos- before throwing all that shade? I recall sitting there thinking "Why can't we say something nice about the woman if we gotta speak on her, like: she did what she felt was needed 4 herself and seems happy with the results and attention"??? Noooooooooo, haters gotta pick the woman apart and forget that all of us have imperfections but sometimes we only seem to focus on other people's issues rather than fixing our own situation. I think the good book states, that before we try to get the splinter out of our brothers eye, we should remove the rafter from our own eye first *lol!
Being healthy and looking good takes time, effort and discipline from someone who knows what they want and how they are going to get it done. Most people don't see the behind the scenes work for the over night sensations that come from nowhere. No one see's the hours on the treadmill, the carefully followed diet or the intense training put in by the pseudo person in question. I just dont think people suddenly wake up looking super sexy one day with no effort. Imangine if a homeless girl with two drug addictived HIV parents decided she wanted to attend Harvard University, would it be luck if that happened? I think it is called hard work and focus, to get the desire results. I am sure some would still say, she only got that scholarship because she was black or was sleeping with the Dean of admissions or something crazy like that.
Its such a turn off to hear haters hate. I think the only thing worse than hating on someone you don't like or know, may just that you are unaware that you are a hater in the first place. 2014 has taught me that if you won't congratulate....then by always means......Hate!
i am Ward.....
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