Basic Arguments.......

Before becoming couples, individuals who only have to worry about ourselves get use to that. When they bring someone into their world then they have to start compromising. We realize that it is no longer just what 'we' want to do or where we want to go. This can cause problems when they/we don't always see eye to eye. I mean no one or two are perfect but that doesn't stop the great expectations does it? There are 3 sides to each story, his side, her side, and the truth. LOL, But each person struggles with merging who they are into who they will become if the relationship grows into something more serious (Marriage). It is safe for couples to disagree about things, but when the discussion turns into loudly expressing feelings and using hurtful and abusive language then the problems begin. Its important for couples to treat the other better than we would our bosses. I mean who really has your best interest at heart? Then place no one above the choice you just made sucka! Just try to hear each other out and then after each have shared their point of view then squash the issue before it heats up and do not go to bed with unresolved issues. I am Ward.....