question on facebook and wardz response in bold.....

Yesterday I got a very sad text from a “friend” asking me if I knew her husband was cheating on her. Sad fact is that it doesn’t matter if I knew or not, the point is, yes he was and still is cheating. So, I asked her, now she knows, what was she going 2 do, the way I c it she has 2 options, (1) stay, work thru his infidelity, (2) leave, and make some changes, hopefully positive changes. We always want 2 point the finger & say who should have said this or told us that … life is full of tribulations, obligations, triumphs, and defeats. But, the resilient person always survives, always pulls through and pray fully ends up being a stronger/wiser person for the things they have to endure. Psalms 23 says, yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. THE POINT OF THIS POST is really 2 the women in my life ... always be prepared 2 take care of yourselves when your "other" half can't or won't step up 2 do it ... never depend on a man, Always, Depend on God 1st, yourself 2nd, ... so when life changes, u r prepared 2 move on 2 the next chapter of your life!! .... Tha Ward I was not going to comment on this post, but after thinking about it, I decided that I had a few moments for sharing even if no one likes my views lol! You want to read it, here it goes. I personally wish cheating is something that never happens, but the reality of the situation is that it occurs and apparently quite often in society. The old saying is the love is blind because of it, we some times see less because we want to see more. I feel that your friend and her dude have been having issues for a while, so women's intuition has little to do with realizing that what ever their relationship evolved into was a direct result of what" her" and" her dude" created together by both their actions. I like how you included the Bible in this post because I really enjoy reading it and feel that the Bible is the Bread of life and not" cake" to be eaten on special occasions, as some of us do! From my perspective, the whole theme of the scriptures is forgiveness. I am not saying she should or shouldn't do, but suggesting that she return to the source of marriage for direction as a couple if both are willing to seek such help. At the end of the day, everybody wants to be((( wanted))) by the person they love right? With that being said, I disagree that you shouldn't count on a man (your husband) because God said marriage is a good thing and he also stated it would be challenges too! Couples are not perfect and Satan is definitely strong, but his tricks are old. I would hope your friend could speak with her dude about the situation, say how she feels, ask him how he think this started, what he and she wants to do moving forward and write out a detailed plan of how the relationship will flow moving forward. I also feel most relationships are 3 steps from being good anyway. Love, communication and respect go along way toward damage repair. I am Ward......