Whazzup with the weak brothers of 2day?

The other day I reflected about relationships in a blog. I really wanted to say quite a bit more on that topic but felt it wasn't the time nor place. What did pop up was- a rather interesting discussion with my homeboy about his problems with his old lady. I admit I was taken back a bit due to the nature of the situation! Wonna hear it.....hear it goes!
My guy friend has this extremely jealous lady in his life. She doesn't trust him to the point of calling human resources at his job to see if he is really there. They paid $500 for a lie detector test to see if he was cheating (he passed) and she doesn't want him to look at w omen's sports like basketball and track and field because the women dress too scantily and he may lust after them, accordingly to her!

Hold on, it gets worse! He has to spend all of his breaks and free time talking with her on the phone to reassure her that he isn't talking to another woman! I called my boy once and he deleted the simple message before "SHE" could review it, and do you know she called me personally and asked me what did I say to her man on his voice mail!!!! I was like o.k. this woman is certifiable! I am not even gonna tell you about the time she said she found another woman's blond hair on the soap after his shower. That one made me laugh!
On to dude number 2! This dude is actually married to his old lady and she methodically runs this man's life! She don't mind str8ight checking him in front of a crowd or in private. He allows her to treat him bad and takes it all in stride. (I know the world sometimes views meekness as a weakness, but as men we still gotta lead as our God given responsibility-right????). I honestly think his wife does not like-respect-love or want him. Its more like a toleration situation until when ever or what ever. I find it unfortunate that these scenario's are real and that these are my boys, but it is what it is!
What is Wardee's point today? Simple! Remember my man Adam from the Bible- of course u do sucka, now read on. Consider this perspective: If Adam would have went to God and said the woman that you lovingly gave me ate from that tree you COMMANDED me not to touch, now what is gonna happen? God could have said no problem little hommie, I tried to told yall that death would follow with disobedience, but I am gonna get you a new dip to be down with on "Team Adam", ya feelz me?" Maybe he wouldn't have said those exact words, but U get my point. In case you don't peep this: The two brothers mentioned above are in unique but very real situations. I just want them to wake up or should I say "BUCK up" and lead like the Mandingo Warriorz I know they are! Their actions are affecting many other people and they don't even know it. One think all humans have in common is that we all follow others actions whether we know it or not! If it works for him/her, why can't i do it also- if not better? Sometimes we copy the bad actions too!
Being a pioneer is never easy because you don't have the blue print to follow, which means the men have to try harder-be smarter and do what we do! Look them females dead in the eye and tell em how you feel about them and what you need from them and what the consequences of their actions or lack there of. Again, it won't be easy especially since they aren't reading the blog, but sucker at least you are.....
I am Ward......