I was recently informed that men are just as emotional as women are. It is important to know that this was a female who made this statement! I laugh at her because I am a firm believer that as a rule, most men tend to be logical and women tend to have their emotional side come more to the front. Neither one is really better than the other. Sometimes opposite attract right? Boy-girl, work-paycheck, hunger-food, you get my point.
Anyway, part two of that discussion lead to the amazement of why unhappy couples remain together? When you think about it, in this economy, who can afford to break up now. Keeping it 100, I feel that people stay together because for a variety of reasons. Kids, finance, familiarity, lazy, comfort, image and so on. I mean after awhile of being in a bad relationship, one just learns to adapt. You start to do things independent of each other, find new friends and eventually do what you gotta do! I am not saying that is right, but it does happy. I feel that it takes two people to make relationship work and one to make it fail.
With the changing roles of women in society, men have to be more flexible. When I was young, my mom cooked and cleaned, but now men do it all and its o.k. Then again, you gotta fill your time somehow-lol!
The long and short of it iz this: Kouples must have make time for TIME! Don't be strangers, talk about your day and you fears and goals with your mate. Be there best friend. Do fun things once a week and of course try to out love the other. Do what needs to be done because it needs to be done. The other alternative is being unhappily happy!!
I am jungle-less Ward...
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