It goes both ways. He just said something to you that, no matter how hard you try to figure out, makes absolutely no sense at all. You give him a blank stare, wondering if he missed some key words in his explanation. He looks at you like he’s just said the most obvious thing in the world… and so it goes… I was told by someone I use to consider a friend, that men are just as complicated as women! Somehow I find that highly unbelievable for many a reasons, but since I am tired I will reserve those views for a later time-lol!
I find that men see some women, as being complicated creatures and they find it even harder to understand exactly what do women what. Well, men the fact of the matter is, women are complicated and for the most part they have too many things that they want, which makes it impossible for them to just really talk about or focus on one. Women are multifaceted creatures, they tend to see details rather than big pictures, they sometimes appreciate the smallest gestures, and they are passionate when it comes to the way they love another. Men aren’t considered complicated because they tend to look at the bigger picture and not care for the details. Men follow the same rituals and routines throughout their daily lives and would rather not deal with change. How many times have you saw a man change his hair style or color in a year? Men like to get better at what they do best, while women like change and expect you to change your stripes and roll with them.
This leads me to my next point. What do females look for in a guy??? It truly depends on each girl. Taste is something that truly cannot be explained, it varies from person to person and can change without one even realizing it. Most girls tend to look at an array of things when on the quest of finding the right one for them.
Some girls are attracted to guys solely based on their looks. They need to find a guy that’s attractive and what we call eye candy. He has to have a certain height, dress a certain way, and have that body to go along with it. No bird chests for these type of girls.
Some girls may be attracted to a guy based on his personality. They may love the way he speaks, they may fall for his smile, his approach towards them. They may fall for his charm. Some girls tend to actually look for a guy that possess a great quality prior to looking at the way he may look. If he is a looker and he has a great personality than that would be consider a plus.
Some girls are looking for the players. Hard to believe, but it is true. Some girls can’t help but be attracted to guys that will end up cheating on them or give them constant grief. Why? Only those type of girls can really explain. I saw a fat girl the other day on match maker millionaire who wanted the bad boy who found her unattractive and overweight, but she still wanted what she wanted. (People wonder why couples end up in divorce court).
Other girls looks for the guy that doesn’t like to say much, not that he has a lack of personality but maybe he’s more shy or reserved. He’s the more laid back type that takes his time to make his move. Some girls believe it or not are attracted to the guys that isn’t constantly trying to, what I like to call, spit game to them.
At the end of he day, couples are gonna have tribulation on their flesh because both are imperfect people. I don't really feel it matters if you like peanut butter and she likes walking barefoot in the snow! What does matter, from my personal perspective, is that each party in the relationship knows their roles and expectation. If the man is the head, then his woman is suppose to be his compliment. Of course he should value, show and tell her he loves her all while she is being easy to love. There are many strong willed, know it all sisters out there ( I call them single) who want a man. Don't get it twisted, not all women want a man or need a man, but the ones who do, I am talking to you-lol! I can only give you advice and this is it: If you have problems in your relationship, you do well to ask your self- are you part of the problem or part of the solution?
I am Ward.....
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