You better be careful what you do to me........

No woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I am going to fall for a bad boy who will hurt me", but how does it keep happening? Most often the men y'all women meet know how to make y'all feel wonderful! Bad Boys are Usually good at Manipulating Women The problem isn’t that the feelings of these women are wrong. The problem is that many of these guys are often very likable, charming, exciting and fun to be around, ((((at first)))). These guys are usually good looking, handsome or whatever word women use to say the dude is ay-ight. They are good at forming a quick, emotional bondz with these unsuspecting women. They are masters of manipulation as the saying goes. And they are used to getting what they want, when they want it and where. Though the common themes of why women like bad boys seems to be because they are, mysterious, indifferent, unpredictable, exciting and above all, what y'all are craving. I like to call it 50 shades of crazy. I googled what attracts women to these heart breakers and found the following>>>>>>> *Their bad boy attitude. *They don’t care what others think of them. *They tend to live adventurous exciting lifestyle. Safe or not. *Her friends or family don’t approve of them. *Their mysterious attitude is intriguing. * The emotional roller coaster the bad boy gives them is addicting. *She wants to change or tame him. *They seem to offer the greatest protection. * They don’t seem to like the woman, and she wants the attention or his love. (A challenge) *Because he aint the predictable dude you got at home. What gets most women into trouble is that their feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved. Despite the tears and sleepless nights these men cause, they are never boring, routine or predictable. They provide plenty to talk about with friends over a Coke. But mostly they inflict misery. Jealousy. Paranoia. Sadness. Depression, you know I am right-lol! Many women spend months just thinking of how exciting this guy is and putting on a sexy dress to see his expression, or of telling a hilarious joke, to show their bad boy lover how witty they are. Some fantasize of changing them (and we know how hard it is to change ourselves). The ironic thing that usually occurs is, the women get hurt and return to and even marry the same boring, nice guy they dated before the excitement popped off. Is it a rebound of the rebound, or is it a fear of being alone. I honestly don't think many of us men understand the gravity of how we affect the emotions of a woman until its way too late- if at all. Seems like couples (both are guilty) are more concerned about who they can sleep with, rather than who they can wake up to! Still, I don't consider it a failure by getting hurt in the pursuit of love.....I mean excitement. It's more like a lesson on learning what not to do the next go around. For women, I strongly suggest that you get to know your self (your worth, values and dreams) and make wise decisions and protect your heart. My cousin just went through some painful love lessons this month and apparently she is not alone-lol! The men, I suggest, we take our leadership role more serious. I know we are taught from kids that the more women we have-the better our rep. I say, learn to love a woman and find out what true love taste like (probably like chocolate stars) I am Ward....