Should you be cool with your Ex? or just let that *%#@ be?

From the jump, I know every bodyz situation is unique to them. What I feel maybe and should be quite the opposite of what you think but since this is my blog and you are the obvious reader: eye suggest we roll with my view point on this joint-lol! Good communication is the glue that holds a relationship 2geather because without it there is no relationship! The easist way to send a message that you don't want a relationship with some1 is to cut off lines of communication. But if you do want a relationship of ANY kind, you have to get along on some level for it to continue or survive. Depending on how the relationships endz is going to dictate how the situation will flow moving 4ward. When you don't talk to the Ex, you are in essence saying that the relationship is unsalvageble -espically if poor communication is what caused the break up from the jump. Heck, I got kids with my ex and eye find we get along better now than when togeather and eye don't want her back. Communication is a powerful tool! Sure there is always the "sex with the ex" factor that keeps your new boo on high alert. Again, adults are gonna do what they are gonna do, so if you trust them, then do that. Jealousy won't keep your mate, but love will! So the ? of being cool with your ex is simple for me. I think you should be, especially if you have kids (what kind of an example are you showing about problem solving). If you don't have kids, you can still be adult about things also, if yall was gonna be a couple then you wouldn't have broke the freak up in the 1st dang place. Most people are so quick to find someone they can sleep with that they don't take/make time find some1 they can wake up to!! At the end of the day, you have two types of people. Those who are evolving adults who move on or the people who stay stuck people pleasing and unhappy and chasing the past. You know who you are, but I am aware of those who never get over their Exz either. For those of you, Wardy suggests that y'all get a new hobby and let that boat sail, because you will be considered a stalker...... I am Ward......