I think we can all agree that women pretty much jack up all the good relationships with all their so called "womenz intuition" and thangs but today, i think I can look at the person in the mirror and see what was unable to be seen before. I say this because reflecting back over the past few months, I had to opportunity to interact with a plethora of women. From co-workers to family and I find they all have one thing in common. They all "LIE" and some do it better than others! I guess it shouldn't surprise many men due to the fact that women wear make up, hair extensions, high heel shoes and stockings. All these things mask who you really are (or women may call it enhancements). I guess due to the simplicity of men, we are what you get from what you see, but that's too easy. Let me see how I can explain this another way. Men usually wear the same hair style, same shoes and drive the same car for ever. We like things to stay how they were because that is what we wanted so we got it (even you sucka). Now when it comes to relationships, after a time the woman comes out of her facade and shows her true colors. Her hair may be really short, she is short, she has bad skin and has one boob bigger than the other one, but now you expect the dude to still be attracted to you even though you were the exact same woman he vowed to never end up with lol! Come on ladies, I said men are simple on several occasions. If I were a gambling man, I would bet 90% of my coins that very few women would let a potential prisoner, I mean husband- actually see how you look and live on date number 2! The fact is that it usually takes about 6 months before you can relax around the opposite sex. This is what I learned to do and ask. Go to a trusted friend, former lover or brutally honest person you know and ask them to tell you straight up- How do they see you? How do you carry yourself and what do they suggest you modify about your person.... If marriage is in your future and you have been single for a while, giving up sex for a while won't fix you nor will blaming the dudes in your past. We all know each case is unique but we also know that we are more alike then different. I am Ward......