Some reasons the men folk get tired of women (only the crazy ones!!!)

"You see us as projects you can 'fix.'" Women see potential. They see rough edges, and they want to sand them off. This makes us crazy. We don't want to change unless we want to change. We have chosen our car, hair, friends, home and hobbies because we enjoy them. "Your expectations are set by Hollywood and sky high." They've been fed a fantasy about romance and passion for so long that when a REAL act of love comes down the pike, he notices that the tread on your tires is low and buys a new set, it hardly even registers. "You're always looking down the road." Women tend to think about the next major step in life. Men tend to think about the next major meal...There is a female drive to get answers to questions like, "What ARE we?", "Are we exclusive yet?", "Are we going to get married?" that makes it seem like they aren't enjoying the now and only worry about the future. Trust me, eye got this one a whole lot without effort on the other end-lol! . "You use your emotions as a weapon." I suppose it isn't your fault that during an important conversation about the future of our relationship you start crying, but surely you understand that this derails the ability to pursue the issue at hand. To make matters worse, you want us to have a long emotional response rather then few words or silence. "You like to play coy." This game where you pretend you don't care and secretly hope we chase you down is for teenagers. Enough said. "You have a complicated set of double standards." I could write a novel on this one. We only need look at the example of going dutch on a first date at lets say "the dairy queen". You offer to split the check, and if we let you, you hold it against us. Really? You demand, quite rightly, to be in on all important relationship decisions, yet when we take you out and ask, "What would you like to do tonight?" you are angry that we haven't taken charge of the situation. It's a confusing set of double standards and antiquated rules that make it very difficult for us to know which move is the right one. Some women want the perfect date but incapable of planning one themselves. . "You want us to change, and then lose respect for us when we do." I have a cousin that met and married a woman who wasn't thrilled that he is a rapper. She was a bit threatened by the attention he received and his time spent pursuing this. She told him, "I really wish you didn't rap," and because he loved her, he quit. Within a few months this woman was confiding to her friends, "I'm a little less attracted to him because he quit rapping, and just did what I asked. Now, he just hangs out at home." Of course eye am just saying this from the limited # of people eye have encountered, but I am sure you can testify that I am right suckers..... I am Ward......