? and Answer session about Kissing with Dr. Ward.......

A client asked me this question below.....
When we were starting out in our relationship, like in the first 8 months or so, we've been kissing and smooching a lot. . But now that we're two years steady already. I always have to ask for it. He doesn't like kissing me. I love kissing a lot (Not to lead to sexual intercourse) but JUST kissing. I feel passionate with kissing and I think that's the best expression of love for me. But, my boyfriend doesn't like kissing long. He only does smack. I brought this up to him and he said, it doesn't mean he stopped loving me. He said that, it's just that he doesn't like kissing. Should I believe him? I'm getting paranoid he's kissing other girl or cheating on me. FYI, I'm hygienic and of course I always make sure I smell good all the time. Is it really normal for guys to dislike kissing?

((((I am Ward's Response:))))
At first I thought this is non-sense but then again this is a question from a woman, so here are some of my thoughts!
*The fact that he no longer kisses you that much is no indication that he is cheating or that he is no longer attracted 2 u. Some men don't like public displays of affection. Personally, I love kissing but not really in public because I like to share that kind of thing in private. It is a good expression of love but because he does not do it that much is not an indication that he does not love or feel attracted to you. Bear in mind that often, once the honeymoon phase is burned out, the intimacy level cools down slightly. You can keep it alive and introduce variety in the intimacy side of your relationship. Remember also as I am sure you know that intimacy in physical terms is only one part of a relationship. Good communication is important too. That goes for him too in that compromises need to be made to fulfill each persons wants and needs. Let's face it, kissing is an important part of any relationship, but I also think you need to have balance with that as well. I suggest you tell your man how much you love kissing him and that if he ever feels the urge, then your lips belong to him and only him. I am sure he will start to kiss you a lot more. Beware however that you may need to double up on some Scope suckers....
I am Ward......