Well anonymous, I thank you for that interesting perspective on the blog about love fading or not! But please allow me to respond about what most of us are seeking that you quoted. Most people, from my vantage point, are looking for a religion to fit their life styles rather than whats in the Bible has to say. How many people know God's name as outlined in the Bible and actually use it as you would with a good or trusted friend. As far as love goes....love is long suffering and kind, but it also has its limits. GOD (as you call him) turned his back on the Jews after repeated attempts to encourage them change. So too, must us who seek love within a relationship betwixt a man and a woman. If some 1 loves you, then it would behoove them to know your role as GOD intended. A woman must be easy to love and have deep respect for her man. He, the man, must love her as himself and treat her like a delicate expensive vase, becuz God will deal with him when the time is right.
So I don't believe its incorrect to walk away from something or someone who KLEARLY has strong views that interfere with the good of the relationship. I recall Eve from the Bible, she wanted to do her thing with the fruit and it ruined her relationship there as well. I can't stress this enough, but the man is the head of the relationship, just like a boss is in authority over his employees. True there are some men who can't lead as well as they should, but that doesn't change their position and when it comes to love, you have to love someone enough to let a person go who can't follow you. Consider having two steering wheels in a car? It would be a interesting drive if she wants to go to the mall and he wants to go to the pool hall-lol!
Anonymous, I am not hating on women, but I know that most problems in relationships start with women (Eve on down) wanting to be the man rather than the helper or compliment. Well at least that what God said they were, but who am I. Yeah I left some1 I love before, but I really feel it was the right move because after all, I am a work in progress......
I am Ward....
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I had heard that the female was a helper of the man but never read it in the Bible. I am a single female and perhaps that is one reason why. I don't know if I can let a man run my life, but I am willing to read he Bible to see why the man gets so much pull in relationships. I hope you are serious about this blog Mr. I am Ward!
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