I was thinking about the high divorce rate and wanted to know why people are attracted then suddenly not! I did research and came up with the following reasons that men are attracted to women!
Soft heartedness - Men are more likely to fall in love with a woman who is soft, or warm, hearted, than a woman who is cold and always ready to challenge you or quick to be tit for tat. Guys love to be respected (not nagged but cared for), and so they tend to fall for a woman who offers them acceptance and warmth. This would have to be the trait that men find most attractive in women. I am not saying the woman has to be a push over, rather a compliment of the man.....
Modesty - Men fall in love with the "modest" girls, and lust after the "hot" ones. Modesty in behavior, dressing and talking is what men look for in their "long-term" partner. Though guys find "hot" women attractive, it's mostly physical in nature and they lose interest after a few passionate encounters in the bed. There is also a common consent among men that "hot" women are less reliable, and high maintenance. In short, men love women who they can take home to their mother ya heard me?
Being Feminine - "Most Men" like feminine women. Feminity is all about being soft, kind hearted, understanding and caring. This attraction is justified by the fact that men are attracted to traits in a woman which they themselves lack 4 the most part. I found that women who dress with clothes that "pop" are so attractive to me. Men like the woman to do this with out us telling them to dress nice!
Character - Men are attracted to a woman who projects a strength of character and integrity. Men are desire women whom they trust to be loving and faithful when he is present or absent! Once men feel their women are community property, he will never look at her the same and will definitely part in the future!
The Woman's voice - Women are naturally endowed with a beautiful voice which men find highly attractive. Some men love a strong voice in a woman, some prefer a soft tone, with a high pitch. Some women have a husky voice and many guys find that attractive after they accept it-lol!
Her Smile - A smile can easily win over a male heart. If, as a girl, you are prone to having a smiling face you are more likely to be approached by guys than when you have a smug, or frowning, face.
Her Eyes - Next to the smile, this is another facial feature that men get attracted to. Some men simply fall in love with the woman's eyes. The eyes can speak a thousand words and this is very much true with it comes to attracting men, don't confuse this with the women who are pretending to be shy-lol!
The Woman's Hair - Most men get attracted by moderately long hair or anything close to shoulder length as that looks more feminine. Who wants a lady that goes to the barber shop with them? Long hair is a must suckers...and roller set them joints too!
Physical Structure - As far as physical features are concerned, men get attracted to a woman's skin tone, lips, height and waist-to-hip ratio. Men are not as focused on weight as women are. Men tend to like a women who is confident in her own skin and willing to share it with her dude as needed!
Sense Of Humor - Men generally get attracted to women with a good sense of humor. A Woman who can understand and laugh with them. Sense of humor is not necessarily the ability to crack jokes but the ability to understand and laugh at one. As a funny person, I am always thinking of jokes, so you gotz to be a ride or die with my jokes!
Confidence - Last but not the least, men get attracted towards women who make them feel comfortable and confident by being the same way in this aspect. Woman who supports them and the one with whom he feels relaxed and open will be most desired. Some women want to show the man how smart they are by reminding him of mistakes he has made in the past or by her superior knowledge on nothingness-lol!
So these traits that men find attractive in women are just my views, but again, every man has his unique taste. The above points are common to most men but not for all. Peep game: a man may look for and get attracted to such qualities in a woman that he lacks himself. A logical dude may want an emotional thinker to balance his views and A hard dude may want soft woman to balance him. Ya feels me. Da real question is where do you fit in sucka?
I am Ward.....
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