She said there ain't no good men left.....but I think she part of the problem......

Well let me state the obvious first on foremost.....I am a male and will write the blog from that perspective: with that being said, why the freak do women keep saying that their are not any good men. I heard the good ones are taken, married, in jail or gay! I find that a hard pill to swallow especially since I know so many single men who are looking for a woman. Funny thing is.... to a man, dating is like an employer looking for a talented employee! The position needs to be filled, but not just by anybody!
Think about it, if someone just wants a person to do what they say, when they say do it- they can easily get a puppy and train them and save themselves a whole lot of drama-lol! But in this year of love and extreme hate- we want..not we need an intelligent compliment! True, men are visual creatures, but we still need your mind right even if your body is tight! The days of the trophy wives are long gone, but that don't stop women from thinking that is all it takes (Kim Kardishian). Just today, I was speaking with a lady who said she is accepting that she will never get married again, even though she desires that again.s like huh??? So I asked her why did she break up with her last several men? She said that "All" the men in her past treated HER wrong, they yelled at her, cussed at her, lied to her and some even cheated on her. She said she just didn't deserve that type of treatment over and over again? Surprisingly, there are many women who can totally agree with this logic, but ya boi Wardy can't! I asked this woman, what does she think the dudes from her past would say why ((they)) parted or broke up with her from their perspective? She said they would say that she was great girl friend and lover that they mistreated and didn't realize it until it was too late. I knew then, she was/is the problem (and straight up KRAZEE). How can 7 different dudes all have the same negative trait to be mean to her or what ever! (Perhaps they were brothers)I then asked her if she ever asked the men what they needed from her and she did not answer? I thought to myself hummmmmm.
See, of the 12 women who share this same view, I happen to know this one particularly well. I know her to be very strong willed, the unique skillz to put together a string of complicated cuss words quickly and did I say she is jealous of other women who got they fitness down? I just can't understand why a woman with all these qualities is single-huh?
Enough on her, recall as I stated that dating is like looking for an employee? Well a woman who wants a good man has to be a good woman too right? 1st know thy self well, know what you strengths and weaknesses are and work on them- OFTEN! 2nd be healthy, eat right, get enough sleep and work out if you don't like something about your self. Don't no dude want no couch potatoe- who chain smokes and knows everything that happened yesterday on The Young and the Stupid! 3rd, Read relationship books like Men are from Mars and Women are Krazee and preferably the Bible (see Proverbs Chapter 31 first). Be open to a variety of new things and places. Don't go to the club and expect to find Jesus Jr! Go places that reflect your personality. Religious places of worship, home repair stores (that mean he got a house silly), sporting events etc. Its not rocket science people.
Of course the good men are already doing this same thing-right? I am gonna give you a little free secret today because I am in a good mood. Men love assertive women not dominant women!! Re-read that.... That means we like a woman who can support us by doing what we need either proactively or re-actively but not a know it all. We call them women single!! Some men are not worthy of a good women, but that don't stop yall from giving them the best that you got while further damaging yall for the good sucka- should he happen along.
All, I am saying is that- what ever you did yesterday to get a good man won't work today. Step your game up and do something new to get something permanent. I feel pity for the single women who are hopeless because you are standing in your own way and letting men play u like tissue paper----DISPOSABLE!!! Please keep in mind that the greatest of beauties like Hallie Berry and Nia Long have issues, so you ain't no exception. My advice to yall men hatars, is why you down on the ground complaining, at least learn to crawl while you down there cause you gonna be down there for a minute!
I am Ward...