Death of a marriage or some call it Divorce....

Recently found out that Chris Rock is getting divorced from his wife of almost 20 years! That is a good run in worldly/Hollywood terms lol! Nevertheless, it sucks that people have to go down this painful road. I can't front, even I have visited this town too! I checked out Chris's new movie and had the feeling that he was done with his wife based off his chemistry with his co-star Rosario Dawson. I have often wondered why man and woman were not created with the innate desire to just stay with one person for life. Must be that free will thing coupled with integrity?
 I did a quick google of why some divorce to see if its a pattern? This is what Wardy found!

Getting in for the wrong reasons. Anything other than love is a problem from my perspective.

 Lack of individual identity. The 2 become 1 but you still have things that are important to just you

 Not having a shared vision of success. Gotta work together or soon be apart .....duhhhh

 The intimacy dissapears. - Gotta give that attention or somebody definitely will suckers

 Finances. - You can do bad alone. Don't jack my funds with you bad habits.....

 Different priorities and interests. - I want 2 learn about God but you want to hit the crack pipe.... not a good sign

 Inability to resolve conflicts. Every couple has disagreements, but when you need a referee to help out? Love covers a lot, but a cheat to win person makes one rethink his/her position.

Millions marry daily and many divorce daily, taking the marriage secrets with them. The way I see it,  the problem is either one or both parties are not doing things the way God says and relying on self logic. The solution is to learn to be your mates bff and do it well. Do what you did the get them in the first place and keep doing that every day.
I am Ward.......