What page are you on sucka?

Wardy has often said "Nothing changes unless something changes", now what that means to you may be quite different than what it means to me- lol! I can no longer count the couples who think that things just magically change overnight and can be easily repaired by watching one episode of the Steve Harvey show (hint: NOT GONNA HAPPEN CAPTAIN) Compare the Grand Canyon, I am almost positive it took thousands/millions of years to get to the point where it is now, but it happened right before our eyes-didn't it?

Same as with relationships over time. When couples 1st meet, conversation and communication are at a maximum or all-time high. Trust could get no better at this point because of the deep interest and desire you please and be pleased. Its almost ironic to rationalize that relationships actually start on a high note and end up in the a place no one ever thought existed sometimes. I admit that there are a plethora of people who avoid these pit falls by learning the 5 languages of love, having great communication and Trusting in our creator 100%.
Here is a Wardy fact I want you to remember: Men only talk about what really matters to them to someone who is "safe", meaning non-judgmental, interested, and not competing for talk time. Men have the task of being the family head and feel as though mistakes are not an option with so much family responsibility at stake! Therefore, he has to make good decisions the first time and be consistent with his logic. So when a man speaks to someone, he needs the unadulterated truth, responses or advice. Imagine how hard it is for a man to speak to his mate about an issues that are of importance to him but his woman decides to talk about everything else on her plate instead. Either the male will shut down or find someone to communicate with. After all, its a time and place 4 everything!  Before the couple realizes what has become of the relationship that lack communication (((BOOOM)))) its over! Isn't that sad how to people who tripp  into love quickly become mortal enemies’- sharing 1 home/family in common? I won't lie, I been down that road a time or 2. Getting back wasn't my best look, but I viewed my errors as learning lessons! As my good friend says "I won't be having THAT argument again moving 4ward".
Women  don't need to be told they are loved every 15 minutes likes many males tend to assume, rather they need a little reassurance from time to time. Letting her know how much you love her, admire her, how much you enjoy being around her and how attracted you are to her- will help eliminate insecurities and doubt. Heck, we all want to feel loved. The male can do this better when he sees his mate trying very hard. It’s hard to be mean to someone who got your back, ask a good woman!
Sometimes relationships are comparable to a big game of Chess. Who can do it better and who just wants to win? It can be very challenging having 2 steering wheels in one car and you can be sure an accident is just a matter of time away. They say a lot of accidents are caused by a loose nut behind the steering wheel (lol).
Wardy suggests, know your role and try 2 get better at it daily, communicate in a way the shows you love and want to be loved by your partner and finally follow scriptural admonition in order to be the couple you were in the Genesis of your relationship.

I am Ward......