3 Things you should never be Proud of suckers.....

1). Don’t be proud of making it rain. Life isn’t some music video. You have young dudes out here going to strip clubs every weekend wasting money trying to impress some people such as their homeboys or strippers??? I get asked to go every week-end and I keep saying NO-NO-NO! Remember everything always works best in moderation. If you feel that you can’t live without balling out of control and making it rain, just cut back on the amount of times you visit the club. For example if you go every weekend, scale it back to just one weekend out of the month. Find something more productive to do during those other 3 weekends like cleaning your house or doing something nice for a family member. Most people have egos that they must maintain so they have to do the flashiest things to draw people’s attention. There’s other ways to impress people with your money. One way is to pay off your car or move out of your parent’s house and get your own place,imagine that? Think of it this way. Are you really balling if you’re at the club making it rain when you don’t even have your own place? You’re not balling if you have to sneak chicks into your parent’s house. If this describes your life, you have some changes you need to make. I am not talking about my nephew-wink wink! 2). Don’t be proud of not knowing how to cook. The only thing worse than a woman who can’t cook is a woman who is proud of not being able to cook lol. Most of the times these are the same women who can’t keep a man around either. This isn’t some big conspiracy. It’s just that no man want’s your non cooking woman, just like a woman don't want a broke man. In this day and age it’s really no excuse for not being able to cook. Every time you turn on the tv there’s some new cooking show. The internet is also flooded with recipes and videos on how to cook just about any dang thing you can imagine. I saw one dude cooking an old boot!!! It really comes down to effort. Do you really want to eat processed and fast food for the rest of your life? That $25 you spent getting a few burgers and fries could have bought you enough food to last you 3-4 days at freaking Aldi's. 3). Don’t be proud of chilling and getting high off weed. Everyone likes to chill and hangout and a great deal of yall yung folk love that weed, but I can't understand why? The main problem is when that’s the only thing you actually do. You ever look at some of your friends Facebook status updates or Tweets and it’s nothing but random lazy thoughts being posted like “I just smoked a joint and now I think I’m going to watch tv.” or stuff like this “Man, this E&J got me feeling good right now.” The funny thing is you’ll see posts like that and its only 12:00 in the afternoon. These types of things are expected from losers from my perspective. You must decide in life if you’re going to be a loser or a winner. Remember you can’t recycle wasted time (I like that phrase, I heard it on a judge show today-lol). Make the most out of the time you have. Be as productive as possible. I noticed in life that the ones who don’t use their time wisely are always the ones who hate others for being progressive. Don’t be that dude/dudette. If you want to chill, make sure you accomplish something first. It always feels a lot better relaxing knowing that you deserve to. I ain't saying I am perfect but we can do better right? I am Ward.....