Is it me or does it seem like some of the greatest love experts are single (most often bitter) African American women? I really admire them and how they know everything that the male mind is thinking, why we do what we do and what we will do next! Its amazing how these women, with all this knowledge are some how single?
Of course I am just being ironic because these type of women are a strong breed that the self reliant and confident man will steer clear of. Smart men quickly realize that trouble will surround this relationship from the start and end with hurt feelings on both parts. If you don't believe me just ask a single-advice giving-know it all sister what happened to her last 2 relationships??? 90% chance its the same story for all-lol! Too much mouth and not enough attention to detail. Not to get it twisted, because we all need a dose of reality from someone who is real, but somehow it just doesn't have the same kick when the advice giver doesn't have her stuff together! The funny thing about this is that I am learning about myself through the actions of others. I was asked a pensive question by a client today. They asked me if I would rather be liked or feared? I thought about it, then about my know it all comm-rads and said the following. "Neither, i would rather be respected because, if some one fears you they will turn on you once they get a chance to find something better. If you are just liked, then people will have a tendency to view you as a push over and treat you like a poot butt when they feel like it, especially when a crowd is around."
With that being said, I am glad I know people who think they know the opposite sex so well, because i want to learn to keep my view to myself. I realized the power of being supportive but tactful with others I encounter. I think man was not meant to live alone but also misery loves company!
If I could help those of which I consider, I would say "Lead by example, get your own stuff together and sin no more sucker.......
I am Ward.....
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