Few thingz hurt more than learning that someone you trust has lied to you. I guess you could feel humiliated, angry or even betrayed. Lies or untruths as I like to call them, destroy friendships, families and marriages and cost people millions of dollars to boot! Scams, scandal and stupidity!!!
I realize that people lie for a variety of reasons, heck in the end we have to own our various selves and choices.
When it comes to relationships, I feel that some (especially women) are in denial about being lied to. One young lady told me that she met a great dude and he told her from jump street that he would not commit to her because he is happy doing his thing. She was cool with it......THEN! She later said she wanted more from the situation and told him and he got mad adn would not speak to her for a week and she didn't know why he got so up set???? She sent him a dozen roses to show her sorrow. I asked why not send a tool box, and she said why would I do that when he has tool? LOL...she was thinking like a girl I guess, but still her dude aint lie to her about his feelings. She is not what he was looking for and stuck to his guns. From my perspective, she just wanted him to be exclusive and he is happy doing HIM>>>>
Lying basically means to not tell the truth. I have been amazed to see people look some 1 in the eyes and straight lie 2 them. I mean what do you have to gain by lying to some 1, especially when you're an adult. I am sure police officers are use to hearing a variety of lies daily. Males sometimes lie to women about how they look in certain clothes, women lie about their age, and kids lie to avoid a whoopin! But my favorite heard lie is the lie that is called ommission. Thatis the lie when the person makes moves and acts like or should eye say hopes you don't find out about it. For example, they may make a purchase or some sort and keeps it on da low low. These moves are done to prevent hearing the dreaded "NO" word or having to explain the purchase. Its sad but the most common! My 2nd favorite is lying to your self. No need to explain that 1 huh-lol!
The one thing all these lies have in common is...... that everyone gets hurt in the end.
On the flip syde, saying I am sorry from the heart and not doing it again, will go along way toward the healing process. As long as imperfect people walk the face of this blue marble we call Earth: Love, lust and lies will be present. I just long for a better day. Ya feelz me??
I am Ward....
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