It may seem odd to think of existing as someone or something that you were not originally meant to be, but on this day I actually thought about it. I asked a few female folk would they have rather been born a man or stay the same. Surprisingly all said stay the same. I, being a male, was shocked!! I mean who wouldn't want function as a man?
Let me switch gears and explain why. First of all, I have never been a woman, thank God and from what I know, that is a good thing. When I have an issue with another man, we can handle it several different ways and then be done with it. We may ignore it, play a sports game, cuss each other out or just fight to the death-lol! In the end, the issue is dead and gone! Women, from my perspective, keep the issue on life support for years! At some point they even forget why they are even beefing in the first place.
One of my favorite things I like about not being a woman is that emotional thing. Gosh, one minute they are loving creatures and the next they are psycho babbling serial killers armed with an attitude and not afraid to use it- on anybody or anything that gets in yall freaking way!!!! Then they can turn around later and say "Man I was tripping wasn't it" like it is some type of joke? (Hanna Montanna say WHAT???)Well, we men folk, don't forget those little jewels that woman bestow upon us. Think about that the next time you see a woman crying talking about how the dude is so insensitive and dawged her or her home girl out. Its because yall KRAZEEE!!! I guess its a way of evening out the relationship...a necessary evil balancer if you will?
So going back to the opening topic. One thing all women have in common is that they all lie and think nothing of it. I know men lie too, but not like women. Dudes lie about things that are understandable and needed to preserve the sanctity of the relationship. For example, dude may say I am going to Todd's house to watch the game when he is really going to the Nudee bar to see a little sum sumthing! He don't need all the questions about "was she pretty or do you think about her when you with me type of harassment! Now women on the other hand will lie to trap a man into an unwanted relationship and then decide they don't want him or gonna hurt him back like he hurt you. They say things like, I am pregnant with your baby and know good and well that its some other hard ankle's baby. The sad thing is women can do this with the greatest of ease and confidence! Just like they lie about they age. I know a lady who has been 28 for 40 years. I know 30 is the new 20 but come on people!
Finally, according to the scriptures, a woman is a compliment of the man-right? Well, why is it that so many women want to tell the man what to do and got so much mouth about it? I know "some" women with strong-strong views and they all single? I can't understand why a woman/women- who knows everything about anything can't get or keep a man! If I get another call from a female crying and asking me about why her dude left her again, I may start to scream like Micheal and Janet did!!!
All I know is this- if you want a good man, be a good woman, darn it! Be supportive, loving and a source of refreshment and you will be surprised at how loving and attentive your man becomes. At the very least, get an old copy of the movie Boomerang and watch it with your dude! But notice, I didn't say this was easy, cause men are imperfect too, but we were the one's left in charge while Daddy's gone, so deal with it. But then again, if what you're doing is working for you, by all means keep doing what you doing playa. Cause good men play too, but not that way suckers
I am Ward.....
3 comments:
You sound angry man. Your old lady cheat on you?
Thought provoking blog, as usual. I have two things I'd like to comment on... First-I love being a woman, I wouldn't have it any other way... we are life givers, w/o us this world would cease to exist... as James Brown sang "This is a man's world, this is a man's world...But it wouldn't be nothing, nothing without a woman or a girl". For the sake of this blog I considered the idea of being a man and I realize that I would be a different type, if armed with the knowledge I have as a woman (refer to Beyonce's 'If I were a Boy'). GOD knew what he was doing in selecting my gender, surprise, surprise... Second I notice in your blogs you feel that 'us' single women are single because we have strong views... So am I to believe that all my married ladies are married because they talk/listen to the man? all my married ladies are married because they know what it means to be a compliment? and are all my married ladies married because they learned to express themselves in a non confrontational way?? While 'us' single ladies are this way because we've 'allowed' ourselves to be hardened by men, the world, life? I find it hilarious and insulting in the same instance that being singles equates that... because CLEARLY (at least to me and the stats) being married doesn't necessarily mean that everyone is working as a team... so if you would ease up on equating single with hard and know it alls... This reader would surely appreciate it.
“Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.” - Joseph Conrad... That's one mans quote, personally I wouldn't have it any other way :)
Did my old lady cheat on me? Lol! Pretty darn sure of that one anonymous, what gave it away? And Nicole (If thats your real name?) I respect your views but don't totally agree. See there are several different types of females and if this blog ain't u, I can dig it. But over all what i said is my truth and how my circle of peepz feelz it! Bey-once made if I was a boy, but please review the Remix with R.Kelly and notices how he says "But you not a boy so you can't know how it feels" ummp truth hurts don't it. True many married couples don't work together but the know it all sisters that I know are that way not by choice but by attitude. Its not problem to listen to our supervisor at work, or our parents at home, but you dude has to be an idiot which makes some women single and others loving followers of the word- sucka!
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