Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Iz errrrr body dysfuctional???


A good friend of mine told me the other day that The Jackson family is not that much different that many other families across the land. At 1st, I was like hecky to the knoll (Whitney Houston style)cause them Jackson boys swapped wives a while back and had kids who are brothers and cousins at the same time. So I thought about it and realized that I have actual family members who have do some strange things 2! True story: My cousins in the South shot each other over the last hot dog. I ain't madd at them because a good ball park hot dog is hard to come by!
With that being said, my real reason for this entry is because I had a study with a couple a few hours ago and it really tested my patience and comprehension of the normal couple myth. This couple was at the streets called "I have checked out emotionally 6 months ago and if somebody don't get you the heck away from me I am gonna kill you avenue!"
It was a lot of I am not heard, not loved, not trusted or I get yelled at and treated like a kid. It was truly wild because I know this couple can't make it without each other yet neither of them want to admit this. As I sat there listening to her side thinking why doesn't she just quit tripping and then she would see that he can treat her like a lady. I sat there listening to his side thinking why doesn't he just do what he has to do as a man and lead by example and not worrying about her jealousy! I also knew that in order for this thing to prosper they both gotta give. Of course, I don't want to put them on blast (they read my blogs)but manily cuz they may not make it. I CAN say this: When your woman says that she thinks you lust after women on t.v. shows and you can not be trusted at work to NOT have sex on your lunch break.....Houston you may have a problem!!! Also when a man is giving you that Chris Brown look, you might wanna back down and sit down before you get knocked down. Its ironic that you can meet someone and think you love each other but realize later that you are only as strong as your biggest problems in ur relationship! I just find myself thinking Iz errrrr body dysfuctional or do we just want to control others with actions? UGGGHHHHHH!

Ward up yall.

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