The age old question of being friends is upon us yet again! Is it possible or is it just a way of wasting time until you feel you are ready to go your separate wayz? Sure many a couple have tried it but usually one or both become extra jealous or very judgemental over your conversations that border on curiosity and down right nosiness.
The way Wardy looks at this is like a pencil. If the pencil breaks in the middle you can always tape it back together, but it will always be weak at the particular point. Likewise when two try to be friends after dating, you have a weakness for that person which can manifest in a variety or unpredictable wayz. You may suddenly want your baby daddy back and he may suddenly enjoy being drama free-lol!
Personally, I think I would have no problem being friends with Whoopee Goldberg, the security guard from the Wayans brothers show or Oprah (well maybe for Oprah I would do something strange for some change-lol!)
If you are a woman how hard would it be for you to resist Flavor Flav? Now lets flip this thang like Urkel did and became Stephon but in this case Flav became Boris Kojoe? Whitney Houston we have a problem. Look how they look at each other, the touch when they talk and the dreamy eyes when they hear the other person's name. Why not just be enemies?
I firmly believe that we are attracted to what we are attracted to, so being friends is a ticking time bomb until something explodes (get your mind right Supa dupa).
So to answer the question of why cant be friends......the simple answer is because we share too much past...Good and Bad......
Ward
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I was thinking about this very topic the other day. While I do believe men and women can be friends (some of my best friends are men), I feel the crux is if there was once a romantic connection. I NOW feel that after a romantic relationship it's probably best to step away from the person for a bit because those feeling are not simply going to dissipate, you need that cooling off period. My quandary is what happens when the romantic chemistry does not die? Is that relationship an either or situation...together or apart? I digress considering your blog is not about that. Bravo, Snap, Snap and Strangé... Another good one my dear.... :)
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