"I was wrong" said no one who left their relationship

Most people who enter into relationships expect them to last forever, but that is not reality for most people. I have often wondered how two people who claim they are interested and eventfully love each other, can go from like-to love-marriage-to divorce court and then restraining orders? Could the new relationship smell be gone? Are the couples out growing each other or perhaps modern couples don't know their roles or expectations anymore. LaVar ball is quoted on his t shirt lines as saying Stay in yo lane. At the end of the day, communication is the life blood of any and all relationships.
Example: A couple of 8 years was having another disagreement and decided to stop talking for the rest of  the day( I call this arguing in silence) because they could not agree on anything. As bedtime quickly approached, the male broke the silence (or so he thought) and asked the female to wake him up the following morning, since she has to be at work earlier than he does. She nodded her head in a smerk-ish acknowledgement (and put her mud stuff on her face and the head wrap that all black women wear for some odd reason). FFW to the next morning and the female got up early and did as she was requested..........Sort of. She left a little yellow sticky note next to his slobber stained pillow that simply read.....Its time to wake up.
After he finally woke up and realizing that he had over slept, he immediately  got mad at her for not waking him up as he requested. He got dressed and then noticed the note on the pillow and realized that the fight is still going on! The ironic thing to me, is that the situations seldom occur in the beginning stages of the relationships, because one or both would quickly exit the union.
I find that the many established couples have similar incidents with very common outcomes! So, who is the victim here? Her or Him? Consider this Wardy fact: I was wrong said no one who left their relationship! Couples do this unique thing where they expect their partner to know them or be a mind reader and to think like they think about all issues. If they don't think the same, then one of them has to teach the other partner the skill of realizing how right they are!!!!
Obviously this technique does not work because it becomes a matter of-  who is going to back down (forget right or wrong). If the couple has a strong friendship at root of their relationship, this can be the very thing that can help resolve the small flares ups. Most people value friendships and want to keep them healthy and most will do what it takes to achieve this goal.
Advice for problems, 1). Admit when you are wrong or tripping 2). Apologize for your part of the error 3). Discuss how you both will handle future issues and stick to it.
Facts: Evolve or Repeat suckers.....
I am WarD....








That's not what I am trying to do = THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE DOING......