Love and Customer Service both have it in common.....just ask SuperBrotherMan......

As each day of my life seems to go by faster than the last, I find myself learning more about things I thought I knew everything about. Up until yesterday, I thought falling in love was as natural as teaching customer service to someone for the first time. Turns out Wardy was dead wrong (as I often am lately)! A young lady told me that he dude always told her he wanted her thick and nice (which she said she was) because that is what he liked! She was like "Cool, I can do that for my dude". Problem is.... she forgot that a body not in motion, is a body at rest! She must have forgot that in order 2 maintain that thickness and sexiness requires a little hard work and some attention to what you eat! Turns out that ole gurl is no longer that thick princess that was once adored by her dude because she is now that lazy chick who is more worried about her weave than she is about what her dude thinks. Of course men think all women find more faults with themselves then  we ever could anyway but the few things we say we like is crucial from our vantage point!
I find that women tend to have a long list of things that their ideal man should be like, which is cool and all---But this allows for yall to make allowences that men can't. For example, if you have a list of 20 things and you meet a dude who only possesses 13 of them, then yall start to rationalize your needs verse wants. "Do you really need a dude with all his teeth? So he doesn't work at the post office, but a McDonald's check beats have no check most of the time!!! Who cares if he doesn't have a car, he has two bus passes and I like to be seen out in public with him.......................Men don't have this luxury. We have a usual list of about 4 things and if one of them isn't there, ummm we out this peace!! A man's list may be as simple as 1). Light skinned 2) Nice body 3)Great cook and 4) Spiritural.
O.k. so man meets woman that is Yellow like Keisha Cole with the body of Serena Williams and can cook like she work at Sweetie Pies but she worships the devil on the weekend. Trust me, there is no allowances from the dude. He chucking up them deuce fangaz with the quickness! With that being said, my point is simple. The above woman who feels her dude isn't into her like he once was is probably correct. But wouldn't it behoove her to spend more time working on her fitness and less time worrying about what he said?  Let's face it, men are visual creatures and we like what we like. Maybe from a female perspective, she is thinking he should love her for her- no matter how much weight she gains, no matter how short her hair gets or how many things she now argues with him about- that she never did in the past.  I think my dog shouldn't bark at 2 a.m. if he hears a strange noise because I am trying to sleep, but it doesn't always work out that way. Men may also think, "what if I suddenly didn't do my secular job like I did when my boss first hired me, would I keep my job for long?" Hummmm, Wardy thinks not!  But who am I?????

Similar to customer service. I thought customer service was something that could be easily taught, but I found out that it has to be something inside a person that makes them want to be helpful or have integrity. Seems like most people in love and business are more concerned about speaking rather than listening. If someone says they don't want the widget with pink fuzz on it, why try to make them purchase it anyway. Find out what they want and give them that and keep your customer/partner happy.
Love and customer service both have it in common: You have to work at to get it and keep it.
I am Ward.....