Does breaking up mean the couple is no longer a couple??????

Looking at this from the male point of view, I would say a relationship is dead after some harsh words between two people and ending up with "I hate you and hope you die"! Well guess what I learned from some co-workers last week?
I was told that when a woman says all those things that means she just wants the man to chase her or at the very least have a cooling off period. I almost fell of my seat after hearing that illogical reasoning! I mean, does that work in your job too? If the boss says clock and don't bother clocking in tomorrow. Could he just want me to work harder or show him that I really love my job? Ummmm, Wardy thinks NOT!!!! So why the heck would you expect this from the person whom you are suppose love more than anyone else in the world....................it doesn't !!!!!
A man will treat his woman much better if she acts like his help mate rather than his dictator. If he is wrong in his actions, consider telling him that those actions hurt your feelings and give him a change to correct the matter under peaceful conditions. Somehow I don't think the strong arm technique is very effective in the 2015!
I am also amazed at the way couples crash and burn. Relationships often start out with the guy chasing the woman and her finally giving in and then chasing him because he wants to get the heck away from her now, lol! I asked a recent dumpeee what happened to her relationship. She told me that she was busy with her job, college and her young son and apparently not giving her dude of 5 years, enough time & attention. Seems like he found another chick who filled his void. The dumpeee said she confronted the man stealing chick and told her if she comes around her dude again that "She would lay her down where she stands" (never heard that before).
Hummm, I thought to myself, this dude won't change his game, rather he will adapt to her detective skills. When a dude doesn't want you no more, he will find many a ways to show you until you get it. Similarly, a dude will not commit to a woman until he is ready to leave all of the other potential conquests alone.
I will say this again, from a male perspective, if we break up, we are no longer under the rules of couple-ness! There is no cooling off period. You free to date and and so is he. So its better to stay mad and together than giving some one a hall pass that they can't use, because they will. No two people in any union are perfect but they are human. So don't expect a cat to bark like a dog, nor a fish to walk like a bird and don't expect a dude to think you are still his only interest if you tell him you all are no longer a couple.
I am Ward........