I once had a coworker whose goal was to say “Good morning”
to every person he met at work in the morning. His intention was to initiate
the greeting before they spoke to him.
Back when I was in school, I had a teacher that I didn’t
really like because I figured her to be pseudo! She made a point of saying
“Good morning” to all of us each morning, but I rarely responded. At the time I
didn’t realize how rude that really was. Now I try to say “Good morning” to the
people I work with whether I know them or not.
Even if you aren’t a “morning person” you can learn this
habit of good communication. (If you dread communicating with others first
thing in the morning, then you especially will benefit.) Consider these reasons
you should be saying “Good morning” to your coworkers.
1. “Good morning” is polite and welcoming. Common courtesies
make the world a nicer place. In addition, they are small but important
“lubricants” that help keep friction from developing between people. When you
say “good morning” you are not only greeting the person, but you are wishing
them well for the day.
2. “Good morning” acknowledges the other person’s presence.
Your coworker is present—acknowledges them. A “good morning” goes at least a
little way toward making them feel welcomed. Ignoring a person is rude and it
sets the tone of how we will treat others. Ya know, internal and external
customers deserve the same respect-Right???
3. “Good morning” is an easy way to break the silence.
Sometimes if we don’t speak to a coworker when they arrive, then we don’t feel
like speaking at all. It’s like we’ve missed our best chance to get the day’s
communication off to a good start. If the other person begins work for the day
without speaking to you, the silence can go on and on. And the longer it goes,
the harder it is to break. It always boggle's my mind why this behavior is
expected and accepted in work places!!!
4. “Good morning” is an easy way to start a conversation.
Conversations are so important. Many of the things that make a workplace
pleasant—camaraderie, friendships, a congenial atmosphere—revolve around
conversations. Saying “good morning” each morning is an easy way to get the
day’s conversations off to a pleasant start. It allows you to approach your
coworker with what you have to say. Conversely, if your coworker has been
hesitating to discuss something with you, or has been waiting for the right
opportunity, a greeting gives them an opening.
We can't ignore the Donald Sterling rule in society! Some
people may not like you because of your skin color and will never like you. It
was once said that 25% of people will never like you, 25% don't like you at
first but can change, 25% like you at first and can change that view also, and
25% of people are gonna like you no matter what happens (usually family or
Pacer fans toward each other). All I am saying is, if a company exists to make
money, then the employees would behoove the business by being as if paid actors
who come to work and give the best performance daily. After all we are "ALL WITNESSES".....
i am WarD.....
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