Love changes that change us......

Lets face it, one reason people have so many relationship issues is due to them focusing on what they have to give up rather than all they have to gain from this new union! I re-read the wedding vows that people often use during weddings. I, especially paid attention to part that says "for better or worse"! How many times do couples forget about those words when something happens to irate you or when your spouse ruins the fancy wheels or your whip after you warned them hundreds of times!
Heck, I guess its easier said- than done-huh? When you get down to the root of most issues, I feel its all about communication!!! In most relationships, there seems to be one, who is more into the other one. You know the one who is always trying to hold the relationship together, while the other is well bent on doing the opposite. But why is it like that? Could it be that opposites attract each other like a moth to a flame, like white on rice or ugly on Flavor Flav? What ever the case, there are many of people in "Struggle Relationships" who either don't know it or just don't care.
Couples start out so strong, taking lovely pictures that capture those precious memories of how that whole  love thing started.  Fast fwd 7 years in any relationship and notice that the kisses (if any) aren't as frequent or passionate, the waist lines aren't as small or the conversations revolve around the kids lives and activities. I call this the Love changes that change us in full effect! Surely no one starts out with someone thinking that it will all go south in a few measly months/years, but at the same token, many couples don't always proactively safeguard them either. They say, relationships can be hard work, which means that instead of thinking that grass is greener on the other side, perhaps one would behoove themselves by spending more time watering their own back yards. We have to take time to snuggle on the sofa while watching an old movie, holding hands on a date two hours before a movie starts, praying with your partner for success of your union and always trying to figure out ways to out love the other!
I don't know about you, but I am realized a long time ago that I only have a limited # of hours on this planet we call Earth, so I don't want to waste any more time that I absolutely have to by being upset with someone who loves me and I love them. Its really ludicrous when you think about it.
Words to live by: If you mad      
1). If you mad at someone (especially Wardy) get over or get out of my life
2). If you crying, go to a funeral home, because we alive and moving forward here....Buckkk up sucka
3). If you say something- think b4 you speak and mean what you say....
4). If you love me don't just say it, freaking show it.
5). If you want to please me , ask me what I like and I will tell you. Doing things you think I like, might just be a waist of your time and more importantly......MINE!

I am Ward......