....Hi Ward, I read that blog about the couple who been dating for 10 years! I think I know at least 5 couples in that exact same situation so I wasn't to surprised. But what did shock me was your tone. It seems like you obviously know this couple and clearly care about them, but why does it seem like you want to change them? I think the problem is that you keep trying to talk logic into an irrational situation with unreasonably mentally blind people. Since they've been together for so long obviously the unhappily happy situation works for them!!! Better when you accept that they are kind of special individuals lol!!. Yes, what you wrote makes total sense, but there is absolutely nothing you can do to change their personalities, which is clearly a separate issues from behavioral issues. Apparently they just need each other I guess??? At this point they'd have to commit to counseling or relationship therapy for the rest of their lives if they want to function how you think they should. I guess there are some people who want a change and there are people who only talk about it. The issues they have, seem to be entertaining enough that they stay another day, with each other just tellin the same old sad story. Ward, if I were you, I'd either run for the hills or take their situation and use it for what it's good for....Entertainment and/ or conversation.
*Thank you Ms.Parker for your feed back, I will post your response.
I am Ward.......
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