The Key 2 Konfidence.......

“Sometimes you have to let everything go – purge yourself. If you are unhappy with anything – whatever is bringing you down – get rid of it. Because you will find that when you are free, your true creativity, your true self comes out.”
~ Tina Turner
At least that is 1 woman's view point on the matter and as much as I hate to admit it, I agree with her. I spoke to a co-worker the other day and they shared with me that they sometimes feel less than confident. I was truly surprised especially due to the image that the person gives off. I began to think that others may very well feel the same. But "WHY" I ask myself? Hummmmmm
I soon came to realize that we all have fears and personal insecurities for what ever reason/s. I also feel that the difference betwix some letting their fears and doubts hold them back and some one who soars like an Eagle....is they are both scard, but the one who soars does what needed to be done and thought about their fears when the soaring was done. What if Thomas Edison had gave up on the light bulb, what if Garret Morris rejected Peanuts and what if Obama never ran for President of America? Were they sure they could be successful, perhaps....but look at the results they left behind!
Wardy advice in 5-4-3-2-1

1. Face your fears – I promise you, they aren’t as bad as you think. When you face your fears, dead on, your confidence will increase. It will take you out of your comfort zone, but it will make you believe in yourself.

2. Forget your failures - If you’ve failed, I always say, never ignore the message. There’s no future in the past. Mistakes are made all the time, but you must always learn from them. When you don’t ignore the message, you learn, and when you learn, you grow. When you grow, your confidence grows and you’re then able to make better decisions, more sound decisions (presumably-lo).

3. Know what you want and never be afraid to ask for it. You always hear this in sex talk– “Tell your partner how you like it, and don’t be afraid to speak up.” It’s also true in life. When you ask for what you need, you instantly feel more assertive and confident. Everyone deserves to have their dreams come true. Why shouldn’t you try to make that happen?

4. Dive into something you’re passionate about. Once you increase your confidence, make a list of 3 things you hope to accomplish in the next 6 months. Try and work towards those goals, bit by bit each day. You should feel like you’ve contributed, and done something of impact at the end of a day. Not just like you simply went through the motions, yet another day.

5. Celebrate Milestones! – When you’ve achieved one of your goals, it’s cause for celebration! Break out some grape soda or whatever you drink, a lunch date with some girlfriends, a massage, a romantic date with yo Boo! Successes are meant to be soaked up and enjoyed.

6. Most importantly, Keep God 1st in your life and watch how all other things will be added unto you suckers......

So my peoplez, I often ask you to make a commitment to yourself. I talk about how we all deserve to be happy. We do! But you also should think about how you’re going to better yourself, and become a person of action. I have made a commitment to improving my lot in life by my words, actions and deeds . What’s your commitment?

I am Ward......