You have been unhappy with your marriage for years. And for the last two or three years you have been thinking about divorce, even fantasizing what life would be like if you were free. You have distanced from your spouse and have been in separate bedrooms for a year. Although there is civil dialogue between you there is no warmth and an occasional flare-up in which whatever the issue, it gets pushed down rather than resolved. For the past year the only thing that has held you in the marriage is your guilt about the children but you have been working on that with self reasoning skills-lol!. And you have finally reached a decision. Even with all its disadvantages and all the concerns and problems it will cause you have determined to get a divorce. So now all that is left is to tell your spouse.
Sometimes that is easier said than done. Studies show that 75% of all divorces are generated from the woman and the men are totally caught off guard. Nevertheless, others tend to think the male must be at fault if the situation goes bad. Perhaps that may be the case, but then again, no two couples are ever really alike are they? I think one crucial point that on lookers conveniently omit when a couple has decided to call it quits...is the origins of marriage itself. (Some are gonna say that Bible knowledge is not common), but how hard is it to open a freaking Bible and read the first book and find the requirements?
From what I read, it says the man, Adam, was created 1st and was given a help mate, Eve, to help him carry out his assignments given by God. Well, we all somehow know how that scenario turned out after she came into his peaceful life. Seems like every since then, women have been wanting to take another role other than the man's compliment. I have no issues with a career woman, but why get married if you feel that way? True enough, men are not suppose to mistreat his wife, but she has role to play of being "easy to love" according to the scriptures. But what does that mean? Well I encourage you to Google that for your self. (hint:Proverbs Chapter 31) I know a couple who truly love each other and how they get along wonderfully. They have issues at times, but they way they attack the problems and not each other....it is inspiring. I am not oblivious to the fact that many men don't handle their business in a relationship like they should, but when one is on point, its sad that the fruit will only be realized when its too late.
Being the head of the house is the hardest position in the world, because you are the responsible person for everyone under your care. This requires the man to be knowledgeable and dwell according to accurate knowledge of his mate, leading by example and always showing and telling his mate how valuable she is to him and the team. Most men find this challenging because many so called modern women are ready to argue, quick to challenge and ready to use their emotions for evil! Final point, if an employer hires a very qualified candidate to fulfill a vacant position in the company, would it be expected that the person hired actually help the company run better then before they were hired? Exactly......
All I know is that Women are crazy and Men didn't have nothing 2 do with that. Ask Adam from the Bible suckers....
I am Ward....
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