Got this friend who is ready for a serious relationship or even marriage. The funny thing is....depending on where you are in your particular situation in life... will determine how you feel about your own thoughts. I actually wonder how many people seriously think about the pensiveness of the words to the marriage vows and what they represent. I challenge you to google them and ponder them like I did. Back to my homie, plu-leez make sure you know your self first and be a whole person who can give and not just take. The person you are today, you won't be in 10 years....Trust me... and neither will your spouse. So enjoy your singleness while you got it.
Got this other friend who is unhappily married and always contemplating Divorce. On this I say that you must do what you feel is in your best interest. I personally feel it originates back to why you got married in the first place. If you all were in love or so you thought at one time, then, you can get that love back. Reflect back on the things that attracted you to your mate. Keep in mind that humans are very imperfect and if the offender is asking for 4giveness, then by all means ((Biggie)), give them one moe chance. Also keep in mind how powerful hearing "I am sorry" is from a repentant requester.
A sad fact is that many a couple get married for many a reasons other than love and quickly end up being unhappily married and facing a grave decision and many years of regret.
Its truly ironic 2 think, if we could go back in time armed with information we have now, would undoubtedly result in other decisions. Shoot, the spouse may feel similar too..lol! Nevertheless, if you are single, wanting to date or unhappily married, do your research, weigh your oddz and decide carefully and this time do the right things for the right reasons suckers.....
I am ward...
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