She doesn't know me

I am so curious about relationships because of the high divorce rate!
The funny thing is, millions of people take this step yearly.
It really makes me wonder, do we fall out of love or get married for the wrong reasons.
If I had to gander at a random unhappy male perspective, I think it would go
something like this.....

I met the perfect girl 4 me-- someone who I hope stays the same forever. She is soft spoken and attractive. She is neat in appearance and quick with her clever wit. She offers her help and assistance before I even know I need it. She is not pushy by any means- She loves the Indianapolis Colts and has a mean jump shot to boot. She keeps her car on clean and full of gas, just in case we need to roll out to South Bend to get some bar-be-que! She trustz me completely and even though I hate to admit it, This woman is my best friend. When I arrive home, she greets me with a kiss and takes off my jacket. She lovingly asks "How was your day"! Makes a man stick his chest out when he thinks of her......

When I have to give her reproof for a false step, she doesn't think of me as judging her, rather loving guiding our relationship of the path of eternity. And when I am wrong in my judgement, she chooses not to yell and act brand new, she simply smiles and says in that loving voice, "Baby, I love you, but have considered this particular point of view", and I have to smile back and listen to what she is saying.

I love loving her because she is easy to love. Life without her was just Monday thru Friday---9 to 5, but now, the days go by like seconds and the options of fun seem endless.

Oh nooooo,,,, the alarm clock is going off! Its 5 am, I turn to my side and I squint my eyes to focus on the do ragged, big rollers and loud snore of the woman next to me. Even he snore sounds angry, what the #@(# have I gotten myself into. This ain't my friend, this is my enemy for ever! She knows my weaknesses, hates me and my friends, we never go out as a couple (4 good reason), I think I would have killed her long ago, if it had not have been for a real good episode of CSI.

O.k. perhaps this is a random situation, but I am sure its gotta be something like this to get that divorce rate so dang high! Then again, maybe she doesn't know me-you- or him at all!

I am Ward.....