Entropy of Agape!

I am WarD...

When its time.....you will do it!

Sometimes a person gets tired. Tired from fighting against the world, family and/or life and general. Perhaps we all just want to be loved and understood by those who claim to have our backs. Social media has taught me that everyone has issues. There are no perfect relationship in this world. I know  that when people work together, things tend to work out better. The opposite is when others don't realize issues, the chances of the issues being resolved are slim to none.
Many people choose to walk alone in this journey called life. Others try and catch wind between their fingers only to face the cold reality....................that its futile.
Dance like nobody is watching, love like you have never been hurt and do what you know you have to do.
I am Ward......

My favorite Ant....

Twitter user and high school student Emily Wagoner went to the Pita Pit in Oregon and purchased basket of Sea Miss Vickie’s Salt & Vinegar chips. Emily sat down to eat her food not realizing that the dead ants on her chips, was not seasoning.
Emily said she thought the dead ants on her chips looked like seasoning (I guess she didn’t see the tiny legs) and decided to go ahead and eat them all. Later realizing what it was, she went and told the Pita Pit manager. Emily was offered a fresh bag of chips and an apology from the manager but she wasn’t happy with that. Pita Pit contacted Emily and offered her a $50 gift certificate for the inconvenience but she thought it wasn’t enough. Yes, a high school student turned down a $50 meal certificate. So in the end, Emily didn’t get a refund, she refused the $50 gift certificate and she still ate the the chips filled with dead ants.
Emily’s Tweet is still going viral by the way.

On a side note...... Fun Fact: Ants are filled with protein, IJS......

I am WarD....

I want peace and happiness too, but voting is not for me!

People see what they want to see when they want to see it. For example the presidential election of 2016. One candidate does what ever they want and others not only condone said actions, but they also make excuses and exceptions. Another doesn't know any world leaders while the third will say what ever is popular at the moment.
The ironic thing is....people give me the side eye for not getting involved in the shamockery/voting. I guess those people didn't read the scriptures, especially the part that mentions why Jesus spoke about this very topic and then instructed Christians to do the same thing, lol! I don't think cigarette smoking is a wise choice and therefore do not indulge in that harmful hobby. Never once has someone said to me that I am  UN-American for my choice? Nor has anyone ever told me that people died for me to have the right to smoke.
My point is simple, one day everyone is going to realize the Bible was not and is not a joke. Keep in mind how many children survived the great flood of Noah's day.....IJS.

I am WarD.......

Why do some women lose a good man by cmplaining over irrelevant things......

I believe there exists 3 types of women in this world and each has her own set of challenges. 1). The single sister, 2). The married sister and the 3), The divorced sister! Nobody has to be perfect but we presumably should aware of our own various selves and thus own them like we have the receipts.
Most women do not realize that their thoughts are not always in harmony with the male perspective. Its true that are designed to be logical, because we are the head of the relationship (if you don't agree, I suggest you read your scriptures and take that up with God) and should make good decisions for those under his care. I will be the first to admit that men can and often do make mistakes, but that is not an excuse for the woman to think its her turn to run the show, after all you both choose each other and knew the roles that had to be played out. When you think about it, what does the mate that anyone chooses say about the chooser? Never-mind, that is another topic.....

The single woman is comfortable being alone and not having to answer to a man. She doesn't have any expectations about the "whats for dinner conversation",or if she wants to clean her home or perhaps should she spend $500 of those red bottoms??? Actually she is doing exactly what she should be doing in this case, but would it not behoove her to consider, that if she enters into a future relationship- that she might have to make some changes. They say hind sight is 20-20, right? Nevertheless, single sisters are out there and for most, they eventually move to being a married/dating woman.

The married woman has been pursued by her man, he obviously feels she is the one for him and he makes it official. The thing that gets me is that point in the relationship that goes from total bliss to arguing and lack of respect, constant arguing and the whole gambit that follows this pattern. Is the man or the woman? If the man is the problem, he feels that the woman is no longer the same person he thought so highly of and he is very displeased with this outcome. He has in the back of his mind, that maybe things can be salvaged, but also feels that it may never be the same again. If the female is the problem, she may have a tendency to focus on the negative and completely ignore the positive things when they finally get in a relationship. A real recipe for disaster. No man wants to constantly argue with a woman, especially over issues that he feels are irritating.

The divorced/"single again" woman. This lady tends to be the woman who has moved thru all 3 stages and looking to find the next sucka and make him pay for the sins of the last dude/s! She has had deep conversations to her smartest single girlfriends, along with reading tons of cosmopolitan magazine and fully equipped with all the incorrect reasoning abilities to make a snow flake consider living on the sun! I find that its easier for men to fall out of love quicker because women spend a great deal of time and effort trying to make an unhappy relationship work. Why is that you wonder? Women have a much harder time finding suitable men, ya know- someone on their level. So, after the divorced woman completed all she unintentionally had to do & force the man to leave her, she realizes he was the problem (not her) and now has a new perspective on how all men are dawgs.

So in conclusion, the post title is "Why do some women lose a good man by complaining over irrelevant things". I want to leave you with this thought about what men want and what women want.
MEN WANT: Loyalty-Sex-Food-Encouragement
WOMEN WANT: Loyalty-Money-Intimacy- Love-Gifts-All Passwords- Cell Phone Access--Email Account Data-Contacts (with pics)-Attention-Compliments-The Sun-The Moon-The Stars-Your Time (all of it)-Receipts-Explanations- and much more lol!
I am WarD......

It just is.......

Your soulmate is not someone that comes N2 your life peacefully. It is who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person, who manages to evolutionize your world in a split second! People are imperfect and prone to make mistakes, but that doesn't excuse the pain from the hurt U were dealt, but forgiveness means you no longer carry the pain around in your minds eye.

I am WarD.....

The WhiTe Lie.......

 

 

White lie | Define White lie at Dictionary.com

www.dictionary.com/browse/white-lie

white lie. An untruth told to spare feelings or from politeness, as in She asked if I liked her dress, and of course I told a white lie. This term uses white in the sense of “harmless.”

Wouldn't it be great if everyone always was honest with everyone. No more pretending to like your co-workers dress, no more telling your lady that she isn't getting fat or no more thinking that the customer is always right (news flash: Customers are often wrong). I reently read that people who lie to others often think they are not lying??? The more they tell the lie, the more they start to believe it. It could something as small as saying "I didn't say anything" when questioned about what was it that they mumbled. Its clear the person said something, but the catch is that they didn't want the other person to really understand what was said, but they wanted it to be known that something was said. It can keep the discussion going or switch the focus of the conversation. Either way, its counter productive from my perspective. 

What about speaking adamantly about a topic that we really know nothing about? We have all done it, but hardly none of us have admitted to it, especially in the throws of a debate. Example, someone may say drinking on an empty stomach can be harmful, but you retort back that your grand father drank for 50 years with no problems. In fact he drank that back woods moon shine and live to be 83 years old. But did you really know his health condition, what meds he took or how often he indulged in liquid libations?? Its just deeply engraved in some of us to be right, no matter how uninformed we are on said topics.

The scriptures encourages its readers to reply to matters "after" knowing the facts, to avoid being viewed as foolishness. If we would only listen 2 the word......LoL! None of us are perfect and we are all capable of change, but lying to one another is the quickest way to long lasting dead end relationship. In the words of Will Smith in the move "Concussion", Tell the truth ( or did he say tell the tooth, he had a fake accent going, but you get the point).
I am WarD.......