4 da simple gurl........

I am Ward...

What page are you on sucka?

Wardy has often said "Nothing changes unless something changes", now what that means to you may be quite different than what it means to me- lol! I can no longer count the couples who think that things just magically change overnight and can be easily repaired by watching one episode of the Steve Harvey show (hint: NOT GONNA HAPPEN CAPTAIN) Compare the Grand Canyon, I am almost positive it took thousands/millions of years to get to the point where it is now, but it happened right before our eyes-didn't it?

Same as with relationships over time. When couples 1st meet, conversation and communication are at a maximum or all-time high. Trust could get no better at this point because of the deep interest and desire you please and be pleased. Its almost ironic to rationalize that relationships actually start on a high note and end up in the a place no one ever thought existed sometimes. I admit that there are a plethora of people who avoid these pit falls by learning the 5 languages of love, having great communication and Trusting in our creator 100%.
Here is a Wardy fact I want you to remember: Men only talk about what really matters to them to someone who is "safe", meaning non-judgmental, interested, and not competing for talk time. Men have the task of being the family head and feel as though mistakes are not an option with so much family responsibility at stake! Therefore, he has to make good decisions the first time and be consistent with his logic. So when a man speaks to someone, he needs the unadulterated truth, responses or advice. Imagine how hard it is for a man to speak to his mate about an issues that are of importance to him but his woman decides to talk about everything else on her plate instead. Either the male will shut down or find someone to communicate with. After all, its a time and place 4 everything!  Before the couple realizes what has become of the relationship that lack communication (((BOOOM)))) its over! Isn't that sad how to people who tripp  into love quickly become mortal enemies’- sharing 1 home/family in common? I won't lie, I been down that road a time or 2. Getting back wasn't my best look, but I viewed my errors as learning lessons! As my good friend says "I won't be having THAT argument again moving 4ward".
Women  don't need to be told they are loved every 15 minutes likes many males tend to assume, rather they need a little reassurance from time to time. Letting her know how much you love her, admire her, how much you enjoy being around her and how attracted you are to her- will help eliminate insecurities and doubt. Heck, we all want to feel loved. The male can do this better when he sees his mate trying very hard. It’s hard to be mean to someone who got your back, ask a good woman!
Sometimes relationships are comparable to a big game of Chess. Who can do it better and who just wants to win? It can be very challenging having 2 steering wheels in one car and you can be sure an accident is just a matter of time away. They say a lot of accidents are caused by a loose nut behind the steering wheel (lol).
Wardy suggests, know your role and try 2 get better at it daily, communicate in a way the shows you love and want to be loved by your partner and finally follow scriptural admonition in order to be the couple you were in the Genesis of your relationship.

I am Ward......

Love 2014

If my love were an ocean,
there would be no more land.
If my love were a desert,
you would see only sand.
If my love were a star-
late at night, only light.
And if my love could grow wings,
I’d be soaring in flight.

 Love lets you find those hidden places in another person, even the ones they didn’t know were there, even the ones they wouldn’t have thought to call beautiful themselves.

I am Ward....

What some men think about women......

*Contrary to popular belief, women are more visual than men. They are conditioned to see what they want to see, without staring or being obvious. Men admire; women inspect. A woman may decide she is interested in a man before she has caught his eye or gotten his attention.  Men notice contours and curves while women notice form and structure.  So although both men and women check out the opposite sex, men tend to do so in a much less discreetly sort of way.(Admiration)
* Eye contact is a huge indication of confidence in a woman.  The way she carries herself and her overall posture can also tell a guy, “Here I am and I feel great!” or it can say,” Oh please don’t look at me… let me hide over here.”  If a woman walks in, head held high and a big smile on her face, men will automatically be more attracted to her.  Don’t look down and shy away from purposeful eye contact from a man across the room (Confidence)
*A smile can also say a lot about a woman.  Does it seem sweet and genuine? Does it seem awkward and forced? Also, some men are just more drawn to certain smiles and facial expressions.  If a woman is laughing hysterically and seems to be the jokester of the group, certain men are automatically drawn to her.  However, some bruthas go for the sweet and innocent smile that might be a little more sky and subdued.(say cheese)
* If you walk in with a posy of 20 women, most men will be wary to walk up to you and use his best line.  Everybody is afraid of rejection, men included.  So what’s the perfect crew size? Three. Your two friends can keep each other company when you slip away to get to know your mystery man. (dont roll in packs suckers).
* Men are intrigued and drawn to stylish and well put-together women.  These qualities signify that she is clean, responsible, and takes time to groom.  I can't speak for everyone, but weaves suck! Just learn to whip it yourself or get it split at the shop! (Look how you feel).
*All men are unique and require diffent things, but it has been said that there is a top for every pot.....

I am Ward......

Excuses..........

 

Definition of Excuses:
 An attempt to lessen the blame attaching to (a fault or offense); seek to defend or justify.


*What ever you dilemma is (weight loss, credit restoration, true confessions), Just stop making excuses and start seeing results.....

I am Ward.....
 

Ward be trippin....

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This Womans Worth

When she walks away from you mad:
Follow her!
When she pushed you and hits you:
Grab her and don't let go!
She she starts cussing at you:
Kiss her and tell her you love her 2!
When she's quiet:
Ask what is her what's wrong
When she ignores you:
Give her your attention.
When she pulls away:
Pull her back.
When U see her at her Worst:
Tell her she's beautiful.
When you see her start crying:
Just hold her and don't say a word.
When you see her walking:
Sneak up and grab her waist from behind.
When she is scared:
Protect her.
When she lays her head on your shoulder:
Tilt her head up and kiss her.
When she steals your favorite shirt:
Let her keep it and sleep in it for the night.
When she teases you:
Tease her back and make her laugh.
When she doesn't answer for a long time:
reassure her that everything is alright.
When she looks at you with doublt:
back yourself up.
When she says that she likes you:
she really does more than you could understand.
When she grabs at your hands:
Hold hers and play with her fingers.
When she bumps into you:
Bump into her back and make her laugh.
When she tells you a secret:
Keep it safe and untold.
When she looks at you in your eyes:
Don't look away until she does.
When she misses you:
She's hurting inside.
When you break her heart:
the pain never really goes away.
When she says its over:
She still wants you to be hers.
When she repost the piece:
She wants YOU to read it .
When she says this-the blog is done......................
I AM WARd!