Figuring out who I am and realizing who you REALLY are....

When losing is not an option, you basically have to do everything possible to win! At least that is how I thought about life when I started out on my own. Like most people, I took some L's along the way, but it honestly helped shaped me to be to imperfect person that I am today! Would I have changed some things......Heck to the yeah-lol. I am not that crazy, just a little more selective on some choices that I made in my past. My biggest regret was not finding my faith sooner. I know that I would have been much happier in my life and with my life. Learning to forgive, find love and treat others how I would have wanted to be treated could have been a game changer for me, but I ain't tripping about it. I definitely would have realized that "when someone shows you who they are, I would have believed them and acted accordingly. I spent a great portion of my life accepting excuses from others over things that I dang well knew were lies, but I wanted to give the other person the benefit of change and doubt. I learned from this life lesson and I am not bitter about it, more like thankful.
I often watch so many family members, friends and others, make the same bad decisions that I (like so many before me) made. Somehow, I am feeling more comfortable with not trying to save he world. It will be what it will be-right? I basically sum it up this way, "We must be o.k. with failure. We can't let our set backs, cause us to sit back, rather prepare for your come back"!!! If you loose your job, find another, if your mate leaves you- fix yourself and find someone you were meant to be with and if you want to do better for yourself, stop making excuses and start seeing results. Work out, eat right, get sleep and be positive.
I no longer hide behind the mask of smiling faces while crying on the inside, like so many of us do. The world is composed of 95% followers and 5% follower. Which one are you? Never mind, its rhetorical, lol! My life is like a GPS now. I set my destination in the concordance and head out about my business. Sometimes, I have to recalculate, but at the end of the day, Wardy always gets there and so can you!
Some may think they need to have someone with them to make this arduous journey called LIFE,  But our creator has taught me, that if we are on ship traveling to an island called paradise and we feel the need to take some Gold (or valuables) with us for the trip, we might do well to realize that along this journey, the seas might get rough, so don't be afraid to throw that gold over board, because where you going, there is plenty of Gold waiting for you and me! Ya Dig???
 I don't know what this post will mean for you, but as for me.....I and just figuring out who I am and realizing who you really are.......

I am WarD.......